exactopposite Member since Aug 21st 2002 15132 posts
Sat Dec-16-17 07:56 PM
2. "Honestly I don't understand what it even means" In response to In response to 0 Sat Dec-16-17 07:56 PM by exactopposite
I mean.... shit happened. Nothing will make it "unhappen". Work through it, process it, and keep it moving.
For example. One of my best friends was murdered a long time ago. Locking somebody up for it doesn't give me closure. My homie is still gone. Nothing about the situation changed.
I always took closure as something people say that doesn't really mean anything. I don't mean that to be insensitive. I have deal with my share of grief and trauma. I have a therapist. I get that you heave to work through things. It just seems like a bullshit concept to me.