16. "People can say a slick/shrewd/classy/mature man is very" In response to In response to 15
cautious or perceptive
but.....
We live in a very macho non-finesse football loving society in the USA
so....
many men aren't being perceptive and cautious in their approach to women
Now....if football and that whole sports mentality wasn't so prevalent in the USA, then maybe your point about men not having to be rude or sloppy or whatever might be pertinent, but....