21. "you know how the fend for yourself goes...." In response to In response to 0
They got bologna and cheese with no fixings and want your ham, roast beef,tomatoes, mayo, mutrd, pickels etc etc
oh yall got drink..we forgot
can I have someof yalls chips?
>My experience is to come with cash so I don't have to deal >with a card. I split the check equally regardless of what >I've had or didn't have. > >Now with that being said and including the stress & bullshit >factor, I have a dilemma. > >Hubby and I rented a house large enough for all our family >members - his side and mines. > >First mistake. > >Then we had to help everyone make travel arrangements. > >Second mistake. > >Now we're talking about how to split the check for groceries >for the extended weekend. > >Our idea was to have everyone 'host' a meal. That person/s >(if they want to group up with someone else) buys the stuff to >feed everyone for that specific meal. Then you don't have to >be financially responsible for anything else except for when >we go out to eat - which is only going to be 1 or 2x. I'm by >no means thinking gourmet, but you can easily throw together a >spaghetti meal and it's relatively cheap. > >My mom flipped and said she's not going to pay for anybody >else. She said they are all adults and can fend for >themselves. > >Hubby's cousin doesn't think it's fair because she didn't >budget to feed 'everyone'. Mind you she's so called budgeting >for herself, husband and kid. > >Oh and outside of food there are no other activities that >require money of any kind. > >What's a good solution? > > > >