either that or your emotional/physical investment towards her is at an all time lowIm married and not cool with any of my exes, I tried to be amicable towards a few but it just never worked out for whatever reasonI could maybe see it with the ex that things ended with in 2008, but we havent spoken in years. I think there's been closure with another one toobut for the most part Im never trying to be tight with whoever they're seeing now