66. "some friends of mine split up" In response to In response to 0
first off i dont know why stuff like that always gets ME down but i've accepted i'm a sensitive person.
so yeah.
it's the same story i've been seeing (and experiencing) myself lately
couple is dating and things are good dude wants more out of his career/life girl is supportive dude hits a low point dude decides to liquidate all assets (including girl) so he can focus more on career/life meanwhile girl was being nothing short of supportive and is hurt and sad
i mean i get having a woman does require time they feel is better spent on getting their stuff together but if homegirl isn't asking more from you and she understands that and lets you cook what the problem is?
life gets hard and that's when a relationship can be great -especially when that person is supportive and even helping you. can't work 24-7. it's not possible.
so it made me sad. mainly b/c that's been my situation w/ dudes in the past year or so. none of them had traditional careers and were in growing stages and as soon as they hit a low point, it was over. the last time it happened i actually did myself in b/c i had given him an idea and he was so consumed by it, he wanted to leave my house and work on it. LOL. then we talked it out and decided to end things. i believe in him and i know he's going to make it and i'm actually trying to help him w/ that by throwing business his way. not b/c there's still feelings there but because that's just what i feel is right. it's a tough city and there aren't many of us left still trying to get their hustle on successfully. we have to help each other.it sucks it didn't work out but i can't hate on someone trying to make their mark in this city b/c they don't want my bod. lol
i have ambition too but i need balance. especially since i'm balancing 2 careers.