18. "Women are sexualized to the tenth degree. But the minutia is equal opp." In response to In response to 2
All it takes is a trip to a gym to see dudes fretting about the smallest things (I can't get this ab just right!).
Obviously the gaze is focused mainly on female, but I think we do ourselves a disservice thinking that that same sexualized gaze when aimed towards males is suddenly less harsh. Imho it closely ties to the whole 'women don't think that way' nonsense which is sexist in itself.