the whole thing just seems iffy as fuck to me, even if i were going to break down and pay for it calling a stranger off the internet seems like a bad way to go about it. too much chance of bait-and-switch, a druggie, a cop, etc, and this person is coming to your pad (or you're paying for a hotel and going through that rigmarole).
i heard at one point in california and new york they had like a network where people were vetted and had feedback and the whole shit. i think it was called truth sayers or something like that with a fucked up spelling.
And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.