11. "as a divorced guy and multiple loser in love...i have notes." In response to In response to 0
first of all the 1st year is not the hardest...that shit is a prolonged honeymoon. many things abt both parties havent been flushed out yet. give it some time.
money is a relationship KILLER. doesnt matter if both of you are hella comfortable. got to iron out any money issues clearly.
communication is so important.
please dont fall into the comfort trap, where you & her are so comfy around each other you almost like brother and sister.
kids are great, but if you cant handle em on your own, dont have em.