i didnt want to lose myself in marriage
the first year was about being the husband i thought she needed
but there were things i was doing just to make her happy and i was not getting anything from it
i readjusted and kind of starting working on myself because i knew that would be a better way to go about happiness
explained this to her and havent really had any issues since

also make sure you show her your feelings
being a good man is not synonymous with being a good husband

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Navem nu, cuando sol
Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
Vita em, no continous non
Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen

When the sun shades the ship
We sweat and life is not safe
To swim or to touch not
When we unite we hedge amen