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Subject: "I've had two girlfriends in the 6 to 7 years I've posted here."
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denny
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Fri Aug-21-15 02:19 PM
87. "I've had two girlfriends in the 6 to 7 years I've posted here."
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So i have no idea what you're talking about.
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Stepchildren calling their stepparents mom/dad.
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Thu Aug-20-15 10:24 PM
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Yes, pleeasseee go ask the father if his son can call u dad
DJPoke
Aug 20th 2015
1
lol
denny
Aug 20th 2015
3
Yea good luck
DJPoke
Aug 20th 2015
5
Same with me with my bio daughter,.
denny
Aug 20th 2015
7
good post. let the boy call you dad.
Kwesi
Aug 20th 2015
2
the children are black and ur white right?
thegodcam
Aug 20th 2015
4
Yep.
denny
Aug 20th 2015
6
You dont reside in the United States correct
DaHeathenOne76
Aug 21st 2015
27
This is just as odd imo:
Moonlit_Force
Aug 21st 2015
30
yes that was a very naive statement
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
46
The bio dad is black.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
55
oh I c, thanks. well it's on his bio parents to be first people of conta...
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
74
real odd.
legsdiamond
Aug 21st 2015
54
If their bio-dad wasn't in their lives, it'd be cool....
Big Kuntry
Aug 20th 2015
8
I agree.
denny
Aug 20th 2015
9
no
Big Kuntry
Aug 21st 2015
80
agreed
Nick Has a Problem...Seriously
Aug 21st 2015
31
You can't talk to him and
Sepia.
Aug 20th 2015
10
It's the other way around though....
denny
Aug 20th 2015
11
Not to sound too terse or harsh but...
Creole
Aug 21st 2015
21
Not harsh at all.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
34
Get bio dad involved and the both of you present a united front
Atillah Moor
Aug 20th 2015
12
What if he says 'no'?
denny
Aug 20th 2015
13
If he's a loving dad as you say....i say involve him in it...
Seven
Aug 21st 2015
15
If Dad says 'no' the two of you explaining why the answer is such
Atillah Moor
Aug 21st 2015
18
step dad told the kids to call his new wife Mom
legsdiamond
Aug 21st 2015
22
Yeah I got that, but folks can be complex/hypocritical
Atillah Moor
Aug 21st 2015
29
It's also kinda passing the buck.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
36
That's why it's important that you talk to the son together
Atillah Moor
Aug 21st 2015
62
Good point.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
64
Again.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
33
RE: Stepchildren calling their stepparents mom/dad.
Tiggerific
Aug 21st 2015
14
are u and their mom married? U only been in there life for a year...
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
16
*stands in this queue*
MEAT
Aug 21st 2015
32
curious: is their bio dad black then?
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
17
I called my stepdad Pop
bigkarma
Aug 21st 2015
19
Let him call you Diddy? &then tell his real dad to 'take that, take that...
Fishgrease
Aug 21st 2015
20
My son asked to call me if it was ok to call me "Dad"...
Creole
Aug 21st 2015
23
it should be coming from the child not from the parents
Binlahab
Aug 21st 2015
24
Pulls hair out.....
denny
Aug 21st 2015
37
It's good that you don't wanna force or even ask them to call you Dad
J_Sun
Aug 21st 2015
25
even bio parents have to earn it.
SoWhat
Aug 21st 2015
26
do you ever not lawyer? lol
J_Sun
Aug 21st 2015
35
sorry my experience is not common, bro.
SoWhat
Aug 21st 2015
41
IKR... I knew he was special but damn...
legsdiamond
Aug 21st 2015
45
and you wonder why i despise you.
SoWhat
Aug 21st 2015
61
Lots of good advice in here. I vote for an alternative to "dad"
Moonlit_Force
Aug 21st 2015
28
Already talked to my bio-daughter.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
39
tell him to call you 'Pops'
FLUIDJ
Aug 21st 2015
38
i still would'nt be cool wit that if i was bio-dad
Big Kuntry
Aug 21st 2015
81
no, becasue you have a new relationship damn near every yr
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
40
no, wait until they're married.
PoppaGeorge
Aug 21st 2015
42
Denny aint getting married..he's a serial dater who craves parental atte...
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
44
damn
legsdiamond
Aug 21st 2015
47
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
43
kind of weird imo for parents to allow the mom/dad titles
MizClayton
Aug 21st 2015
49
right that's just ridiculous, especially only after a year
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
50
RE: right that's just ridiculous, especially only after a year
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
56
this all day.
PoppaGeorge
Aug 21st 2015
51
they do shit different in the North
legsdiamond
Aug 21st 2015
52
yeah i didn't even consider they weren't married at first
gumz
Aug 21st 2015
60
We've lived together for 6 months.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
63
you cant tell the child that it would be inappropriate? just because it
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
66
I can.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
67
are u serious?
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
71
What poem is that from?
denny
Aug 21st 2015
78
flattery will get you nowhere
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
92
He'll get over his feelings. They're more resilient than you believe.
Creole
Aug 21st 2015
73
Yah...
denny
Aug 21st 2015
79
I feel like this is one of those posts that is looking for confirmation
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
48
I'm probably defensive because more than half of the responses are about...
denny
Aug 21st 2015
58
your SO and her kids father sound perferct for each other
legsdiamond
Aug 21st 2015
65
My SO didn't do that.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
69
u said ur SO wanted to allow the child to call u daddy
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
72
theyre all idiots..those poor kids
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
There's a big difference between
denny
Aug 21st 2015
76
Read what I wrote. I said allow. Not tell. And allowing is reckless as
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
83
Yah but I was responding to someone else to which you responded.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
84
Good luck, will be looking forward to the write up of the new black chi...
blkprinceMD05
Aug 21st 2015
86
I think people count your old roommate a relationship too
Sarah_Bellum
Aug 21st 2015
89
you are being very defensive and why...
StephBMore
Aug 21st 2015
90
okp gonna okp bruh
legsdiamond
Aug 21st 2015
93
RE: okp gonna okp bruh
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
94
oh yah....
denny
Aug 21st 2015
95
RE: oh yah....
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
97
From "SmartStepfamilies":
denny
Aug 21st 2015
98
RE: From "SmartStepfamilies":
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
RE: From "SmartStepfamilies":
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
100
You said it's a simple solution.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
101
From 'smartstepfamilies":
denny
Aug 21st 2015
96
defense..deFENSE....DEFENSE clap/cheer
rdhull
Aug 21st 2015
99
I'm actually defending the legitimacy of the problem.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
102
If the father is involved they should never call you dad
Nick Has a Problem...Seriously
Aug 21st 2015
53
If that's our decision.....
denny
Aug 21st 2015
59
maybe he hears the mom call you "DADDY"
Fishgrease
Aug 21st 2015
57
sometimes i call my stepmom "mom"
Calico
Aug 21st 2015
68
Yah.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
75
i know who i DON'T fuck with on here.
SoWhat
Aug 21st 2015
70
Damn bruh, you lost?
legsdiamond
Aug 21st 2015
77
Him calling you dad after 6 months is way inappropriate
Sarah_Bellum
Aug 21st 2015
82
I have never left a kid's life.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
85
You seem like you really love kids in general
Sarah_Bellum
Aug 21st 2015
88
To get back on topic....
denny
Aug 21st 2015
91
the kids aren't your stepchildren, right?
sweet ruffian
Aug 21st 2015
103
I've known them for a year.
denny
Aug 21st 2015
104
RE: Stepchildren calling their stepparents mom/dad.
ILLwiLL132
Aug 21st 2015
105
It would be easier if you were married to your S.O.
BabyYoda
Aug 21st 2015
106
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