82. "Him calling you dad after 6 months is way inappropriate " In response to In response to 0
Everything rdhull said is 100% correct. The chances that "you won't be around next year" (c) are too high and it will crush the kid way worse to have his "dad" up and disappear if this relationship implodes in grand Denny fashion. Kids want things that aren't good for them all the time. You have to do the correct thing and tell him no... otherwise you're just being selfish. Tell him care about him, so the two of you can always do the special and fun stuff together, whatever that is, but he only has one dad.