Atillah Moor Member since Sep 05th 2013 13825 posts
Fri Aug-21-15 11:56 AM
62. "That's why it's important that you talk to the son together " In response to In response to 36
Even if it is passing the buck that's not your fault. You aren't the one with the problem, but at the same time it's ok i.e. natural for bio dad to have one-- justified or not. Allow his son to have an opportunity to understand that his dad has a problem with it for whatever reason and let his son grow, mature, and deal with his dad on that issue over/in time. This way you respect both father and son. That's the idea at least.
It's not about being right it's about dealing with it the right way with the wrong way being anything that creates unwarranted dischord in my opinion.
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Everything looks like Oprah kissing Harvey Weinstein these days