25. "It's good that you don't wanna force or even ask them to call you Dad" In response to In response to 0
I feel that unless you're the bio parent, that title should be earned and bestowed by the kid(s)... so in your case, that's what's happening. If your girl has a good working relationship with her kid's father, SHE should talk to him about it, stressing that it's the kid that wants to call you that. Make sure it's known that you're not trying to take the place of him. If he's cool with it, I would still maybe settle on something else like "Pop".