I met a 3rd cousin once removed (my great-great-great grandparent is his great-great grandparent) at my fam reunion who is FINE. It ain't going down but I think I'd hit that maybe. Bc we ain't making babies and we have different surnames and we are so distantly related that if my family weren't so obsessive about these things we'd never know we have any relation. Third cousin once removed.
How far out must your cousin be b4 you'd think about it?