1. "red...only because I found it enjoyable" In response to In response to 0
if it would have been something that was not enjoyable or I felt highly offended I would have taken some action.
if he understood it to be something I didn't like we talked about it and he was apologetic we could work it out
but if he tries to act unapologetic or not care about my feelings...depending on the severity of it I would take the appropriate action including but not limited to the law being called
"Holier than thou never sits well with me."(c)janey
"OKP spends way too much time looking for ways to be offended." ~legsdiamond