74. "Regarding the "tendencies" you mention..I had that fear too..." In response to In response to 71
The cool thing is that I became HYPER aware of them when she was born....like...I'd catch myself in patterns that I didn't even know were a part of me...such as a tendency to want to raise my voice....or limit her exploration and curiosity...or try to control every aspect of her growth.... That hyper awareness contributed to a LOT of growth and the ability to ween away from them.
I dunno....just saying....if that's the ONLY factor you're basing your decision on...maybe don't put too much weight on it. It's amazing how a child makes you evolve & self correct so rapidly....as long as you're taking to the time to evaluate and accept your shortcomings and flaws....
"Seasons may come and your luck just may run out, and all that you'll have is some memories..."