and her great-grandkids. and was PROUD of it. loved to talk about it.she got me several times - i lived in fear of her until i was a teenager. all of this despite the fact that my mother gave her explicit instructions not to treat me that way. my mother told the whole family the same thing - they all ignored her instruction. (she was shocked when i told her yrs later...lol)i've also seen too many other grandparents in my family get on their grandkids w/that stuff.based on that i wouldn't trust my family to obey my instruction as related to my hands-off policy.
fuck you.