24. "See...this is the theme i'm seeing...multiple kids = no hangups" In response to In response to 23
Seems that after the first kid, parents are more up for it...even pressed....
And I totally agree about that 1:1 time...I WANT them to have that...but I kinda want it on our terms...and I feel that it's a perfectly reasonable want for us to have.
I dunno.... Just trying to square all of this in my head right now. I feel bad....but at the same time...I'm also kinda angered that my folks aren't just being like most other grandparents we've seen.....getting their retired asses in their car and driving up here to camp out for a spell... LIke...they just TOTALLY skipped that part of the scenario and went straight to what I consider Phase II.....
"Seasons may come and your luck just may run out, and all that you'll have is some memories..."