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FLUIDJ
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"OKParents: What age did you allow your parents to take your kid/s"


  

          

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OKParents: What age did you allow your parents to take your kid/s [View all] , FLUIDJ, Thu May-21-15 10:29 AM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
more like: how soon would they take them off YOUR hands
May 21st 2015
1
I guess we're not in that mindset yet...at this age....not saying we
May 21st 2015
5
      i've always been there. the wife....
May 21st 2015
10
allow my parents?
May 21st 2015
2
Allow indeed... They been trying to straight bumrush.....
May 21st 2015
6
the distance between us and our parents are similar to yours
May 21st 2015
23
See...this is the theme i'm seeing...multiple kids = no hangups
May 21st 2015
24
on the multiple thing
May 21st 2015
35
yeah you have the 1st parent syndrome
May 21st 2015
38
      LOL..wait, you talkin bout that post from last week??that wasn't me!
May 21st 2015
42
I'm ready for company to leave after 2 or 3 days.
May 21st 2015
27
your parents raised you
May 21st 2015
28
you NAILED it
May 21st 2015
29
lol yea
May 21st 2015
32
I DON'T think she was a particularly good parent tho
May 21st 2015
33
Me and my wife are both kinda fcked up in many ways thanks to our
May 21st 2015
43
      we are all kinda fucked up due to our upbringing
May 21st 2015
52
      in regards to discipline
May 21st 2015
55
uhhh thats quite common
May 21st 2015
31
Sh*t, my momma used to pull me out of school early on the last day and
May 22nd 2015
75
all his grandparents live fairly close except my pops.
May 21st 2015
3
if that was our situation i'd probably be more on board.....
May 21st 2015
7
no one has ever had him that long so far.
May 21st 2015
4
Is that your choice? Just hasn't come up yet? What's the longest y'all
May 21st 2015
8
      just hasn't come up. the longest he's been away from me was
May 21st 2015
9
           damn...you doin good...she 2 1/2 & we never been apart more
May 21st 2015
11
                lol i almost cried the first time his grandma took him for a weekend
May 21st 2015
13
                     I was misty eyed as fck just TYPING that 2nd sentence yo...
May 21st 2015
14
                          awww she'll be alright! lol
May 21st 2015
39
                          yes, fam, set yourself free for a few days. at least a long weekend.
May 21st 2015
46
                               Man, if I can get them to get in the car and come up to VA i'm all in......
May 21st 2015
47
Shit we try to "forget" them over there regularly...lol
May 21st 2015
12
"Aye Ma, my bad, we forgot to grab Lil Unfukwitable b4 we dipped out"
May 21st 2015
15
      lmao
May 22nd 2015
72
it hasnt happened yet
May 21st 2015
16
how old is he? what age was he when you felt you were onboard?
May 21st 2015
18
      he is 5
May 21st 2015
26
CORRECTION. I forgot my parents took my daughter for summer once
May 21st 2015
17
whoa!! the thought of 5-weeks! but...if the 2nd child wasn't a factor...
May 21st 2015
22
      Probably wouldn't have been ready
May 22nd 2015
61
Seems like I should have said more than a few days....
May 21st 2015
19
baby isn't even born yet and we already plottin' and scheming
May 21st 2015
20
This #2 for y'all?
May 21st 2015
21
      nope #1.. so don't trust anything I say.
May 21st 2015
50
I've never spent more than 4 days away from my kids
May 21st 2015
25
almost 3 spent almost a month away in Cali
May 21st 2015
30
im still surprised at this question
May 21st 2015
34
it's not just you....i'm still scratchin my head at the question
May 21st 2015
40
No, they weren't bad. But they have ideals and methods and beliefs
May 21st 2015
44
ok, i too think this is reasonable.
May 21st 2015
48
      I want to send them a "This Could Be Us" meme so bad....
May 21st 2015
49
some people swear they can do it better than their parents
May 21st 2015
51
lol...I ain't saying i'ma be perfect parent. And the real root of this
May 22nd 2015
77
Same here. I got and Aunt and siblings that want my son for the
May 22nd 2015
76
*high fives*
May 22nd 2015
79
to be fair a lot of parents get real brand new once they become grandpar...
May 22nd 2015
84
      indeed....
May 22nd 2015
85
Funny, you should ask this...
May 21st 2015
36
my mom already knows, i ever push out any kids, she's on notice
May 21st 2015
37
maybe she did something fucked up they don't want to acknowledge.
May 21st 2015
41
Man...listen...
May 21st 2015
45
      ^^^^^^^^^^
May 22nd 2015
68
They are gonna need to be 65+ before I feel they are responsible enough
May 21st 2015
53
Umm lets see
May 21st 2015
54
*high fives*
May 22nd 2015
80
haven't gone a week but
May 21st 2015
56
4
May 21st 2015
57
why isn't it happening anymore?
May 22nd 2015
58
      i have full placement of my daughter...her mother wants the summer
May 22nd 2015
94
you scared they gon curse in the car on the 5hr ride??
May 22nd 2015
59
did you read ANY of my replies throughout this post??? any of them?? lol...
May 22nd 2015
60
      i did..and see me in 8 yrs when u getting that ulcer bcz
May 22nd 2015
64
           so basically you goin off for no reason right now.....
May 22nd 2015
65
i don't want to be a parent bc of the way I was raised.
May 22nd 2015
62
And it's such a taboo subject. As demonstrated here...to even suggest
May 22nd 2015
63
yup. and, of course, it's mostly about (grand)mothers.
May 22nd 2015
66
And I wouldn't even call it shitting on anybody really. You get to an
May 22nd 2015
69
      i agree, unfortunately.
May 22nd 2015
71
      Regarding the "tendencies" you mention..I had that fear too...
May 22nd 2015
74
           good stuff.
May 22nd 2015
93
      I am *right* here with you
May 22nd 2015
78
      I'm sorry but I have to chuckle at "modern concepts"
May 22nd 2015
89
           LOL...just wait fam... just.wait.
May 22nd 2015
92
My mom spanked me like it was going out of style.
May 22nd 2015
67
my grandmother (RIP) beat the hell out of all of her grandkids
May 22nd 2015
70
yeah, that's something that pretty much standard now...not even
May 22nd 2015
73
nope you and sowhat have different view points
May 22nd 2015
82
      No one should be giving me the side eye for anything......
May 22nd 2015
83
      aint no one checking for all your replies
May 22nd 2015
86
      Yea nothing you said was side eye worthy
May 22nd 2015
87
      i wouldnt say everyone
May 22nd 2015
90
see i understand what you are saying HOWEVER
May 22nd 2015
81
100% respect that
May 22nd 2015
88
***reads post, thanks whoever for my family, exits**
May 22nd 2015
91

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