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def agree. saw it in my okcupid days. |
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May 05th 2015 | 1
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I like it when white guys put in their profiles |
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May 05th 2015 | 9
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what bugged me was readin a page and thinkin "how cool... |
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May 05th 2015 | 13
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I avoid the controversy of this topic altogether by |
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May 06th 2015 | 163
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I'll bee dat. |
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May 05th 2015 | 2
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*daps* |
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May 05th 2015 | 14
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Wanting to date within your race isn't racist. All other racial dating |
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May 05th 2015 | 3
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It's as racist as wanting to live & work around ppl the same race as you |
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May 05th 2015 | 4
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No, it's not. Edit; hang on. Reword. |
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May 05th 2015 | 6
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Black and Latina women come with |
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May 05th 2015 | 8
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Yes, correct. |
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May 05th 2015 | 11
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Middle Eastern, Asian, and North African as well. |
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May 05th 2015 | 25
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I find it the same thing |
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May 05th 2015 | 12
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I don't understand how people don't see this. It's the same thing |
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May 05th 2015 | 30
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hell no, it isn't the same AT ALL |
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May 05th 2015 | 46
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Race-based prejudice. Exercise of power based on race. |
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May 05th 2015 | 15
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Do you agree that most men would be able to 'order' hair colour? |
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May 05th 2015 | 34
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yeah. it's called 'colorism' too. |
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May 05th 2015 | 36
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Where is the Race-based prejudice? |
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May 05th 2015 | 45
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Prejudging ppl based on their race. |
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May 05th 2015 | 50
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you assume shared experiences just like ppl do when hiring... |
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May 05th 2015 | 58
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I am not assuming anything. I've dated all types of women. Over time |
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May 05th 2015 | 69
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I give them props for trying.... |
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May 05th 2015 | 80
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you are assuming they have the same experience as you |
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May 05th 2015 | 55
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You're 'assuming' a LOT. |
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May 05th 2015 | 71
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no it's not. |
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May 05th 2015 | 5
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Right. And what's the "ism" for my preference for... |
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May 05th 2015 | 10
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the things you mentioned are variables available to all races |
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May 05th 2015 | 16
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There's a difference between |
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May 05th 2015 | 19
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because not even skin tone is exclusive to one race. |
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May 05th 2015 | 26
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This is an extreme though. |
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May 05th 2015 | 29
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I honestly hit dogged about this, strictly from the race exclusion stand... |
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May 05th 2015 | 63
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Word. We're on the same page. |
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May 05th 2015 | 75
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Exactly |
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May 05th 2015 | 78
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It's not about "looking out" for anything |
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May 05th 2015 | 31
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Exactly. |
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May 05th 2015 | 27
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I'm pretty sure my Johnson is not racist....it just likes what it likes.... |
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May 05th 2015 | 24
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colorism. |
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May 05th 2015 | 35
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Well, this seems to be getting silly. |
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May 05th 2015 | 72
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colorism != racism. |
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May 05th 2015 | 84
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Glad someone asked... |
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May 05th 2015 | 17
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i agree that ppl shouldn't necessarily feel shame for the prejudice. |
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May 05th 2015 | 42
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I'd rather know if a guy who's dating me considers me an inferior |
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May 05th 2015 | 7
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I've never been in a situation where I had to tell somebody they were |
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May 05th 2015 | 18
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exactly. and why sound bigoted when you can just pass on an individual?... |
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May 05th 2015 | 22
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i thought that was his point |
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May 05th 2015 | 70
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I think we're all in agreement |
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May 05th 2015 | 82
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we are |
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May 05th 2015 | 92
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I disagree. I think people should make their preferences known. |
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May 05th 2015 | 105
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i'll dither |
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May 05th 2015 | 109
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uh, yeah in a situation where you get that deep with somebody |
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May 05th 2015 | 114
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that's how i see it. |
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May 05th 2015 | 115
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or they are just being honest when pressed for a why |
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May 06th 2015 | 152
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why? I think that is one of the chances you take when you pursue |
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May 06th 2015 | 151
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it's a chance when you pursue someone in your race. |
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May 06th 2015 | 158
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I can't believe we really have to argue this point |
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May 05th 2015 | 20
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What have you people done with "Racist/Racism"?? Return it immediately! |
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May 05th 2015 | 21
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this is an area where 'race' being a made up construct becomes fragile |
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May 05th 2015 | 23
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wanting to date your own race is racist? LOL... oh well. |
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May 05th 2015 | 28
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ndibs nails it in #4. |
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May 05th 2015 | 33
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nah |
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May 05th 2015 | 41
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yes people prefer to live around people "like" them |
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May 05th 2015 | 62
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it isn't racist until you don't want OTHER people to date outside |
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May 05th 2015 | 73
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plenty ppl who hold race-based prejudices |
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May 05th 2015 | 37
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ok |
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May 05th 2015 | 40
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not when you say it from that perspective. |
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May 05th 2015 | 51
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nah, if I didn't want OTHER people to date outside their race... |
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May 05th 2015 | 74
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Arguing Semantics before my morning coffee?? |
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May 05th 2015 | 32
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great. |
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May 05th 2015 | 38
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nope...fluidj pretty much nailed it |
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May 05th 2015 | 39
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some good discussion here... good post. |
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May 05th 2015 | 43
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lol...nah |
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May 05th 2015 | 44
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...what if I just dig fat chicks. Is that a thing? |
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May 05th 2015 | 47
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Thinism. |
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May 05th 2015 | 48
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WHY CAN'T YOU JUST STOP OPPRESSING ME WITH YOUR PARTNER-SHAMING |
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May 05th 2015 | 53
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RE: WHY CAN'T YOU JUST STOP OPPRESSING ME WITH YOUR PARTNER-SHAMING |
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May 05th 2015 | 54
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You thinist piece of shit! |
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May 05th 2015 | 57
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LOL @ all 3 above responses. |
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May 05th 2015 | 67
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Fetishizing obesity. |
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May 05th 2015 | 52
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...but some of my best friends are fatties. |
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May 05th 2015 | 60
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they shall overcome someday. |
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May 05th 2015 | 64
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RE: they shall overcome someday. |
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May 05th 2015 | 68
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ding |
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May 05th 2015 | 94
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yes |
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May 05th 2015 | 93
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OKP tries so hard to be anti and pro that it's actually schizophrenic |
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May 05th 2015 | 49
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indeed |
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May 05th 2015 | 79
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It makes no sense. |
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May 06th 2015 | 167
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So? |
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May 05th 2015 | 56
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Agreed. |
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May 05th 2015 | 59
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yep. |
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May 05th 2015 | 61
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how is my preference a mark on deciding which race is superior? |
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May 05th 2015 | 65
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superior in terms of your preference. |
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May 05th 2015 | 66
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gotcha. im not really sure how anyone can front on that |
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May 05th 2015 |
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gotcha. im not really sure how anyone can front on that |
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May 05th 2015 | 77
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No that doesn't work. |
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May 05th 2015 | 101
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you have decided that short women are superior |
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May 05th 2015 | 103
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superior? lol... |
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May 05th 2015 | 106
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"compatible" is superior to "superior" |
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May 05th 2015 | 107
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Yall need Jesus |
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May 05th 2015 | 76
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not if you don't have any power (i.e. Match.Com dating profile) |
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May 05th 2015 | 81
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lol |
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May 05th 2015 | 85
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right on. |
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May 05th 2015 | 86
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i really dont judge people on anything other than their character |
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May 05th 2015 | 95
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you probably judge them on more than that. |
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May 05th 2015 | 96
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given the dynamics of race in many societies |
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May 05th 2015 | 87
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agreed - benign racism. |
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May 05th 2015 | 89
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quite a logical leap |
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May 05th 2015 | 88
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<--- track star. |
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May 05th 2015 | 91
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benign racism is an oxymoron |
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May 05th 2015 | 102
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so is 'jumbo shrimp'. |
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May 05th 2015 | 104
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true |
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May 05th 2015 | 90
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So What? |
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May 05th 2015 | 97
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see #56 & 59 |
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May 05th 2015 | 99
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this is the most honest explanation of it ive ever heard. |
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May 05th 2015 | 98
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well I put them in the same group-- |
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May 05th 2015 | 100
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sometimes it is though |
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May 05th 2015 | 110
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either way, people should just be honest with themselves |
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May 05th 2015 | 123
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agreed |
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May 06th 2015 | 149
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new movement: de-pejorativization of term 'racist' |
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May 05th 2015 | 108
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lol it will be fascinating... but doesn't ''racial'' kinda cover that? |
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May 05th 2015 | 119
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wtf is 'racial'? |
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May 05th 2015 | 121
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racial = having to do with race. |
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May 05th 2015 | 129
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oh okay. |
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May 06th 2015 | 137
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it's a mistake continuously conflating bigotry and prejudice with racism |
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May 05th 2015 | 111
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I think if you only find beauty /attraction in one race you are racist |
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May 05th 2015 | 112
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tehcnically, yeah. but i'm all for people being honest. |
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May 05th 2015 | 113
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hmmm ... what about sexism? |
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May 05th 2015 | 116
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it's the sexiest of the 'isms'. |
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May 05th 2015 | 118
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lol true.... and then there's the "Hedon" |
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May 05th 2015 | 122
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christians go for the "altru..." |
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May 05th 2015 | 124
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is stating sex-based preferences sexist? |
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May 05th 2015 | 117
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stating right-handedness is dominism. |
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May 05th 2015 | 120
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lol what if you state you're right-handed and very short? |
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May 05th 2015 | 125
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*finger guns* |
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May 05th 2015 | 126
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lol |
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May 05th 2015 | 128
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Im straight but I wont date a woman that wouldnt date a bisexual man (c) |
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May 05th 2015 | 127
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Is racist and helpful. No more hurtful that hearing someone prefers |
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May 05th 2015 | 130
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of course YOU don't. |
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May 05th 2015 | 131
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If someone tells me they're racist why would I feel bad about it? |
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May 05th 2015 | 132
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that's great, player. |
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May 06th 2015 | 135
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Slightly related: Are Chicken Fries a metaphor for interracial love? |
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May 06th 2015 | 133
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it's there. |
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May 06th 2015 | 136
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Classic SoWhat trolling. Yall fell for it. |
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May 06th 2015 | 134
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i don't think so. |
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May 06th 2015 | 138
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It's only racist if you preference is "White" |
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May 06th 2015 | 139
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Oh that's right. Only white ppl can be racist. |
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May 06th 2015 | 140
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I didn't say that. I said anyone who states their preference is "White" |
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May 06th 2015 | 142
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you're right. |
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May 06th 2015 | 143
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If a black man prefers not to date black women that's not racist |
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May 06th 2015 | 154
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Agreed. |
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May 06th 2015 | 173
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Nah. Preference is fine. |
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May 06th 2015 | 141
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it sure is. |
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May 06th 2015 | 144
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I was with you up to this. |
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May 06th 2015 | 145
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you can bring your dog to work? |
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May 06th 2015 | 147
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lmao |
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May 06th 2015 | 148
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lol! |
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May 06th 2015 | 150
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RE: you can bring your dog to work? |
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May 06th 2015 | 156
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Familiarity. Racism and prejudice aren't the same. |
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May 06th 2015 | 168
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I haven't held race against anyone, but I've only dated sistas |
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May 06th 2015 | 146
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What if I don't date within my race by preference? |
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May 06th 2015 | 153
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yup. that's right. |
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May 06th 2015 | 155
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Some people would label you a self hating coon |
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May 06th 2015 | 157
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likes them white and weak |
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May 06th 2015 | 169
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okay okay but what if |
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May 06th 2015 | 159
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i just heard something similar this week. |
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May 06th 2015 | 161
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The best I've been able to do is show him the stats on white women |
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May 06th 2015 | 162
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She probably would have... |
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May 06th 2015 | 164
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oh , this is about the action of explicitly "STATING" it |
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May 06th 2015 | 160
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. |
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May 06th 2015 | 170
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My okc setup searches for asians and latinas only |
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May 06th 2015 | 165
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I wonder if white folks would date albino Indians, or Pakistanis? |
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May 06th 2015 | 166
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"NO BLACK MEN" isn't the same as "Prefer Black Men" |
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May 06th 2015 | 171
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lol |
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May 06th 2015 | 172
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