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Joe Corn Mo
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31. "the decision to date is different than the decision to trust. "
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>Your decision on whether you trust someone you are dating is
>completely made up on Day 1?
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>You won't have a better idea as to whether you can trust
>someone on Day 467?

my track record I pretty good with this actually.

only one person in my inner circle has actually fucked me over.

and even then, it wasn't a surprise because he had given
me indications that he had changed before it happened.

I didn't have to snoop for those
indicators, it was clear.



my guy now, i didn't always know
that i'd want to be with him,
but it was clear to me that he was trust worthy. he has given no indication that I should question my decision to trust him.

perhaps i should state that I
generally don't trust anybody for shit,

so if i am considering dating you, you managed to not set off
my spidey sense, which is hard to do.

i frequently tell my friends that somebody ain't trust worthy.

they have learned to listen,
based on how accurate my readings of ppl tend to be.





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>That doesn't even make any sense.
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>"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then
>they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
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>"One of the most important things in life is what Judge
>Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to
>whether you're

  

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If your boyfriend/girlfriend still had tinder would you find it suspect? [View all] , lightworks, Thu Apr-02-15 01:12 PM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
"i like swiping"??? what the hell
Apr 02nd 2015
1
it's fun to see who else is out there
Apr 02nd 2015
      lol is that what he meant though?
Apr 02nd 2015
6
           Peep my OP edit
Apr 02nd 2015
7
                ah ok. it's not desirable behavior but it makes sense
Apr 02nd 2015
10
no. b/c ppl are nosy.
Apr 02nd 2015
2
I've wanted to be on Tinder so bad
Apr 02nd 2015
4
      you really ain't missing much
Apr 02nd 2015
8
      Ask for a Tinder Pass
Apr 02nd 2015
11
      I'm always asking the single homies to show me their tinder. LOL.
Apr 02nd 2015
15
nope.
Apr 02nd 2015
3
if they logged in, yes
Apr 02nd 2015
5
i'm still technically logged in on my phone
Apr 02nd 2015
9
sounds stressful
Apr 02nd 2015
12
absolutely
Apr 02nd 2015
13
I always find it suspect when I see dudes I know who are married on ther...
Apr 02nd 2015
14
Yeah it's suspect and anyone falling for that should be leary of their S...
Apr 02nd 2015
16
trust can not be earned.
Apr 02nd 2015
17
      sounds great in theory...
Apr 02nd 2015
19
      will you actually trust them more if they delete the app?
Apr 02nd 2015
25
           yes I would trust them more if I met them on the app
Apr 02nd 2015
33
      Yeah no. Trust can absolutely earned.
Apr 02nd 2015
22
           thats how niggas end up crying in the car
Apr 02nd 2015
26
          
anything that can rouse suspicion of unfaithfulness is unacceptable
Apr 02nd 2015
18
how you gonna ask why it's so hard then admit you go back?
Apr 02nd 2015
20
      im still single. if i was in a committed relationship, i wouldnt go back...
Apr 02nd 2015
21
           I thought you meant you got off after 1 date and had an SO but...
Apr 02nd 2015
23
           Do you want to rethink this statement?
Apr 02nd 2015
24
                no because it makes sense to me
Apr 02nd 2015
27
                so I shouldn't go to the bar by myself?
Apr 02nd 2015
29
                     people go to a bar for other reasons besides finding someone to date or ...
Apr 02nd 2015
30
                          I tell my wife this all the time but she doesn't believe me
Apr 02nd 2015
35
                you call, she doesn't answer.. SHE CHEATIN ON YOU!!!
Apr 02nd 2015
28
                     sorry i thought the word "reasonable" as in reasonable suspicion
Apr 02nd 2015
32
                          nah, I kinda agree... but this reminds me of my sister
Apr 02nd 2015
34
                          So you don't mean ANYTHING that may arouse suspicion is unacceptable?
Apr 02nd 2015
36
                               good catch
Apr 02nd 2015
37
                               ANYTHING that can arouse suspicion in a reasonable person
Apr 02nd 2015
39
I was on it for a couple of weeks. Just to see how it was. Honestly...
Apr 02nd 2015
38
I saw the FUNNIEST profile the other day. Cortez' Girl.
Apr 02nd 2015
40
i would find it disrespectful
Apr 02nd 2015
41

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