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Totally agree with this |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 1
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maybe it's where I grew up, but I haven't witnessed this |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 91
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love this article |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 2
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The hand holding among men in Ghana is great. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 3
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same thing in nairobi |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 12
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word. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 25
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Oh they did it in Accra when I was there |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 250
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I'll admit the idea of dudes platonically holding hands is so foreign |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 5
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Read the article and/or stfu. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 6
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lol @ and/or |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 15
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Why you mad? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 51
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i dont know that its a correlation |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 14
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But are there a lot of homophobic countries that don't have touch |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 55
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the article contextualizes it to this society |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 66
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*sigh* |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 67
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Is this preference specific though? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 117
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dunno. email the author. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 122
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what about non-homophobic countries that don't have touch |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 104
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YO. That shit threw me off like a MF when I went last year!!! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 251
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If it's the peice I think, yes. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 4
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I saw it on FB too. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 8
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It makes sense |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 18
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agree, but tell that to GW Bush |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 7
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Likely initiated by the Saudi. Lol |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 9
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Beanie Siegel wept |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 10
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I think black men are more tactile with their male friends |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 11
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barely. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 13
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i think i saw on okp that sitting next to your male friend |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 16
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Yep meanwhile |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 19
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Seeing some of those public transport photos was eye opening |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 22
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There's definitely a system to it |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 36
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o_0 indeed |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 56
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you see it. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 27
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I had an umcomfortable incident w/ a gentleman from Ghana |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 17
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damn. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 28
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I call bullshit. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 20
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Straight Korean men can hold hands without issue |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 26
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YOU would. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 29
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Trying to toughen your son doesn't automatically equate to homophobia |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 35
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k. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 38
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this i dont get: Trying to toughen your son |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 54
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have you seen worldstar videos? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 62
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what does 'soft' mean? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 72
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It means that you don't stand up for yourself. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 78
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oh okay. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 80
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I never said it was effective. My parents didn't do it. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 83
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cool, dude. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 85
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these bmore kids dont get enough love or hugs |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 76
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misogyny is at the root of homophobia. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 75
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also often guised as |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 87
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amen! |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 88
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Totally agree |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 108
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Yup |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 130
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Dykes are the meanest people on the planet |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 193
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what is a dyke? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 226
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T H I S. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 218
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If this ain't an oasis in a desert full of sexist, patriarchal apologia.... |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 422
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thinking of it as a binary is a HUGE problem as well |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 289
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you toughen your son up to be prepared for life |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 298
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an aside: blue for boys, pink for girls |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 106
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yeah, i had to read this a while ago for some marketing research |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 292
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I call bullshit on your bullshit |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 31
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have no idea what you're getting at. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 32
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he's missing the point. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 34
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He is |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 40
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possibly b/c of the 'homophobia' thing. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 41
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agreed |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 71
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he's confirmed it repeatedly. LOL |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 73
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I'm not missing it (although I didn't get the gibberish that she just sa... |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 42
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Your logic makes no sense... |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 44
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Two things: |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 46
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platonic touch isn't so much about physical pleasure. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 47
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And this is what I mean, though. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 49
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LORD HAVE MERCY JESUS. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 52
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LOL. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 61
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Let's be very clear, fam. You don't know me. Hell, I don't even.. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 74
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i am very clear. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 77
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well, that just about does it then. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 81
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i sure hope so! |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 86
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Lol to get this back on track |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 79
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i have black friends who are more touchy-feely than i am. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 84
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Okay it was just me that got side tracked then lol |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 89
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RE: Okay it was just me that got side tracked then lol |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 94
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We might be getting somewhere |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 102
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i see it with my lil cousins |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 107
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:( |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 127
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eh, i dont know. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 93
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oh yeah. you're on to something there. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 96
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Yeah I dunno |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 99
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i agree. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 101
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this is sad: any physical touch= romance |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 57
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You absolutely just made that up. It's not worth me responding. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 63
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sure, guy. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 45
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RE: sure, guy. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 48
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k. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 53
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okay, maybe we should link it to it being seen as 'weak'? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 64
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it's so sad! |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 69
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nah, not code for gay |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 398
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They pierce dicks and mutilate genitals in Africa too so there's that |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 65
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such a wierd tangent. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 68
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I dont want no man touching me, and I'm totally ok with that |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 21
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i wonder how many women think this |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 23
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at this point it appears all of yall |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 24
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if yall are repulsive, why should women want you? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 90
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whose y'all? I'm one of the most attractive human beings on earth. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 109
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Lots, right? Isn't that the prevailing wisdom? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 39
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not really |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 98
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as a teen |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 82
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i cant stand in front of a man in close quarters |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 95
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LULZ! willful ignorance is so charming and funny. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 30
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Not wanting to be touched by a man is now ignorant? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 112
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yes. like your reading of my reply. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 123
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I didn't realize this until my friends (a gay male couple) enlightened m... |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 33
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you see it. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 37
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that's unfortunate that you have to do that w/ relatives |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 50
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I prefer a head nod lol |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 43
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lol do you hug male members of your family tho? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 58
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Also as a matter of logic, how they know the dudes in the pics |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 59
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b/c there weren't gay ppl back then. |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 70
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Then what the heck was Oscar Wilde put on trial for?!? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 174
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For engaging in homosexual acts. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 200
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I blame hip hop |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 60
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what are daps/hugs? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 92
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See that's that bullshit |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 97
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Sociologists argue it's about expressing power... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 309
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why? you trynna rest your knee on the two ladies? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 100
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Lol it's platonic |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 103
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i mean, go and watch 'Swingers' and see how much has changed even then |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 105
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I remember talking to a guy in high school about it |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 110
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I'm surprised when my straight male friends & colleagues want to hug me |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 111
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aww. *hugs* |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 113
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RE: aww. *hugs* |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 114
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I need to come to nyc soon! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 362
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=( *hugs* |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 131
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our conditioning has been conditioned. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 138
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:( This made me sad. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 164
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me too :/ |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 234
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Damn |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 256
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wait, so if i don't want to hold my male friends' hands... |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 115
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yeah... no |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 121
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no, it's b/c of SATAN. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 124
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Oh well, SoWhat? |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 116
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try to ketchup, Heinz. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 125
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Most guy on guy contact I have is on the bball court |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 118
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yo lol |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 128
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lol.. frats and athletes touch all the fucking time. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 132
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it doesn't matter. b/c homophobia is a fictional concept. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 134
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sounds like you need a hug |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 153
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lol, contextual and apt A+ |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 393
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so you pat butts and hold hands with your friends? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 139
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RE: so you pat butts and hold hands with your friends? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 151
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because you are trying to 'win' |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 212
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locking arms on the sideline has no effect on the outcome |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 233
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^^ #winning |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 241
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I don't hold hands with my female friends either, most adults don't hold... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 170
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y'all stay throwing women up as a shield |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 214
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I'm just saying, adults don't normally hold hands regardless of gender..... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 283
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great |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 366
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k |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 119
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maybe from touching other men, but we get touched more |
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Mar 25th 2015 | 120
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Yes |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 126
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Good conversation n/m |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 129
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the world can be, and is, a sad place sometimes |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 133
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the funny thing about it is that most people you ask can cite examples.. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 136
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that's b/c there's no such thing as 'homophobia'. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 137
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let's be clear here |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 150
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nah, your experience is a lie... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 155
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lol |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 238
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right. i get it. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 243
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i don't think the child-rearing issue is solely due to homophobia |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 307
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awesome. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 343
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"This brings into question the "crisis" nature of the article" |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 154
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right. And homophobia is a lie so the article is bunk. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 201
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"This brings into question the "crisis" nature of the article." |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 205
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yes bc men give each other handshakes there is no crisis. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 208
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*Pats head* |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 209
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^ more proof that this is bogus. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 219
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*looks at 10 sweaty men grabbing all over each other at the ball court* |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 135
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yeah, the author says the only touch left for men is athletic and sexual... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 140
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*looks at the same ten men can't even sit next to each other in the thea... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 141
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that's b/c it doesn't FEEL GOOD to touch a man. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 143
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nope nope nope |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 145
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oh they won't kiss their homie b/c it doesn't feel good. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 149
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american male lips are sand paper |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 166
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Men are competitive beings |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 146
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right so you might as well not sit close to your homie in a theater. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 148
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Absolutely |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 158
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you don't exist |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 167
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if they don't have to why would they? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 157
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if they were my supposed friend |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 165
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RE: if they were my supposed friend |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 195
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i'm not the one trying to "win" |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 215
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#picsoritdidn'tfappin |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 223
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because women fap to friendship |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 225
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not all women, just you |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 236
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all to "win", right |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 240
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nah we just like our balls to breath. However those new |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 280
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Some of you have really nice capes! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 142
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look up in the sky, its.. SUPAMAN LOVER YEAHHHH! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 162
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lol people are WORKING in here, hahahah |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 169
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https://38.media.tumblr.com/276606135cb8f6cedbedcbab1e8c75c1/tumblr_n43t... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 173
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hahahaha |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 194
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damn, this shit funny |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 258
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Men hug and touch each other everyday with genuine affection via |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 144
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of course you disagree as a whole. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 147
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Always defaulting to your real issue - again. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 156
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you see it right? people in here telling him they hug their friends |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 159
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Right. He's salty because his post isn't going a planned. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 161
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my nephew and I said I love you on the phone at the same time |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 176
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Word. It's a norm for me and my boys |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 189
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you even made a "I love you, man" last month |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 203
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I'm such a Clairvoyant! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 206
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it's also proof that God is real. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 210
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You still defaulting. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 216
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great. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 227
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this is bullshit. maybe an issue for white men. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 152
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white frat dudes are the most touchy feely dudes on earth |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 160
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so are black dudes in trap videos. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 163
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right. A woman I know made a post on facebook a while back about how.. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 168
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yes my nigga |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 175
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y'all hunting those exceptions down HARD |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 171
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i hug my brothers with both arms. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 179
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how dare we have examples that don't fit the narrative |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 181
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oh look you touched a male just today |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 183
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our affection doesn't need to meet your standard to be valid. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 186
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instagram it |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 188
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with no shirts on!!! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 172
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plus hugging! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 182
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dog, niggas cry. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 191
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you have a camera? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 192
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WE need to take it all the way? LOL... OH, THE IRONY |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 196
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its an every day thing right?? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 197
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pretty much.. every time I see my friends we dap & hug |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 202
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because...thats how natural it is |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 229
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I don't a photo to believe them |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 246
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lmao |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 399
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Nah playa I have no problems dapping and hugging my peoples. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 177
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E'ERYDAY I HAVE TO KISS A MAN TO PROVE MY LOVE!!!! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 178
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I think men hug now more than ever, the dap hug has become mainstream... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 180
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but do you sit on your coworkers lap in your cubicle? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 184
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show us! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 190
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you need help getting off or what? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 198
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RE: show us! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 207
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#showusyours |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 224
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those naturally are pictures of billy ray |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 228
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LOFL |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 259
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yes we were completely wrong! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 187
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Right? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 217
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absolutely |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 244
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smh @ trying to discount touching during athletics |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 199
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pics or it didn't happen |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 204
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we aren't the one being dishonest in here |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 211
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#blackhugsmatter |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 220
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#filmyothughugs |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 221
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#ineednewfapphotos |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 222
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yeah...he mad |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 230
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pics or it ain't true |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 235
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feel like a winner yet? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 242
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http://blogsurface.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/stephhhh-e141124115161... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 247
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Court is one of the last places men can assert their masculinity |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 213
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RE: Court is one of the last places men can assert their masculinity |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 231
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Interesting. Tell me more about what it's like to be a man |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 245
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oh no i'm fascinated |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 252
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lol |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 253
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i never understood the ass slap in sports. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 277
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this is one where I want to get it, but I don't. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 232
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it's fine if you don't get it. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 237
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but what does handling EMOTIONS... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 248
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Dunno. Email the author. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 254
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you don't have all the answers Swhayt? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 261
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still mad huh |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 270
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nah... but when I get that hug I'll be sure to take a photo |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 272
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which will be shortly right? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 275
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I'll even whisper your name in his ear when I hug him... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 282
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nah whisper his name |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 285
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nope, it's all for you so your name will be used |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 311
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but wait i thought you hugged "all the time" |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 319
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Right |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 257
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Wrong. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 391
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those who play the game get to make the rules |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 239
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It's pure irony to think this is due to homophotiba. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 249
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My homegirl told me two years ago that she realized she could tell |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 255
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Yes. Confession: that's one of the main things that annoys me about |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 291
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Ah! Yeah I do have one homeboy who doesn't do the hug |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 315
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Just about every man in this post has been robbed of touch |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 260
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LOL. SO FUNNY. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 262
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RE: Just about every man in this post has been robbed of touch |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 263
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Replies 157 and 184 |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 267
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it's called sarcasm dude... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 268
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No, I covered that in the latter part of my reply |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 273
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nah, there is no reason to address it since my experience |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 278
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RE: nah, there is no reason to address it since my experience |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 287
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u said we are in denial... |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 400
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LOL |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 264
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sarcasm? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 265
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amazing the levels of denial |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 271
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you sound soooooo jealous... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 274
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instagram dude |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 276
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I'm gonna congratulate you on getting a hug cause you needed it |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 281
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you need it more than me dude |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 284
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I'm just glad you hugging OKP's |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 308
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aawwww now who's jealous? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 329
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now hugging a dude and trying to take a pic at the same time IS gay af |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 290
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bring it in here bro (click)... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 304
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even if one of the women took the pic as the hug took place? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 312
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women? your friend made it a rule that no women can be present |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 316
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nope i didn't |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 320
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I almost cant believe you are this weird |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 330
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need a hug? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 360
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we losing intimacies |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 306
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LOL |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 321
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lol |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 384
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RE: Homophobia has robbed men of touch (link) |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 266
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levels |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 269
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I still cross my legs and apparently it's "un-manly" in America |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 279
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That isn't considered unmanly, it's viewed as something that old men do. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 286
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i have friends that do |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 288
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i don't understand how a man cross his legs. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 293
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lol i don't cross them all the way |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 294
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isn't that...??? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 299
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men do that all the time. i thought you meant when you cross and then |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 305
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yeah, that's how men usually cross their legs |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 310
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my dad & all my uncles do the full cross |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 334
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*sigh* |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 317
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Fellas: When's the last time you told another man "I Love You?" |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 295
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Yesterday. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 296
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love you for that my brother. that's what's up. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 297
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Love and respect to you too. Me and my best friend been mad emo... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 300
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man, my friends have been going through marriage, divorce |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 314
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is your friend still drinking or using? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 339
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last week on a 3 way phone call with my homies out west. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 301
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love you for that my brother... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 302
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love you too bruh, one thing i realized is no matter how long |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 313
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Saturday. I told a bunch that I love them |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 324
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nah bro i can't go for that...j/k i love you for that. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 336
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when is the last time you gave your homie a neck rub? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 349
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lol never |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 351
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and that's what the article is about. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 353
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I know |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 357
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I'm a prude, I only do that with my nephews |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 354
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i've only done it when on |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 356
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don't do that with platonic women either though |
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Mar 27th 2015 |
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don't do that with platonic women either though |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 405
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don't do that with platonic women either though |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 406
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3 months ago. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 337
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*kisses you on the mouth like my name's Isaiah Thomas* |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 338
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LOL |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 341
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NEVER |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 388
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this is some YT sh*t |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 303
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Women, how many of yall would look suspiciously at guys being |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 318
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its a patriarchal society |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 323
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I understand that. This ain't about a gender blame game. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 326
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i'm not sure you do |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 331
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the author of the article mentioned it: |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 333
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boogie see? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 342
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RE: boogie see? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 359
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agreed |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 367
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See what? The fact that the same article you are defending quotes.. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 381
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Yesyesyes |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 386
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Race and Gender are different, despite their intersections. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 352
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RE: Race and Gender are different, despite their intersections. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 385
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... |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 390
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Patriarchy is the answer to everything, huh? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 328
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if not racism |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 332
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I don't think this discussion was even meant to turn into gender wars |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 340
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we don't live or type in a vacuum |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 344
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man, you betta let that woman tell you what your thinking |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 335
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who you calling "that woman"!?!? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 347
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I thought you were a woman, mad bad bruh |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 348
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A woman |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 363
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This is still OKP. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 325
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That goes for everybody tho, lol. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 327
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Obviously the author didn't go thru an Army Basic Training Chow Line |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 322
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the one where men lay on each other for support? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 345
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I Said Chow Line. WTH are you gabbin about ... |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 361
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why did you bring up the chow line? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 369
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It was an exaggeration of the closeness that men experience |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 375
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Oh ok. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 377
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This post is split between Hetero Men and Non-Hetero . Crazy. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 346
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when is the last time you rubbed your homie's feet? |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 350
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Rubbing feet ain't the only form of touch. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 365
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oh yes |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 368
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Sure. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 371
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RE: Sure. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 374
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Uh huh |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 376
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https://youtu.be/ZpXoCmwZANU?t=128 |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 370
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Lol!! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 373
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This post is ridic but I think this video totally sums it up |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 355
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LOL!! |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 358
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heh |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 364
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as does this one: |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 387
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omg. lol |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 419
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If you play Omarion's "Touch" while reading this post |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 372
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folks, personal anecdote is not data |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 378
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and their anecdotes don't mean shit. Lol |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 379
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An author's opinion is not data. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 380
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yup |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 383
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People go out of their way to get on some agenda shit... |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 389
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y'all think this is some agenda shit? |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 417
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This is perfectly in line with your agenda |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 424
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i definitely have an agenda. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 428
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damn |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 394
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he broke that shit down |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 395
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But the underlying question is WHY NOT |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 401
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Why should I. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 402
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and why are you homophobic if you don't do these things? |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 404
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only you can answer that. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 412
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LOL |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 415
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no, i think there is an answer. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 418
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I have the answer for myself, but I want to hear *her* answer since... |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 420
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who's the her here? |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 421
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This is frustrating. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 423
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here's a book |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 425
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So, you don't have an answer or supporting data. Thanks. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 427
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sigh. the book talks about lack of intimacy among boys. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 430
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I asked for your definition of lack of touch as well as data on.. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 432
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im down with this |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 403
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exactly. all of the defensiveness about the homophobia is |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 411
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Bravo! Man you did that sir! |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 408
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Yup. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 434
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it's how people interpret, process, or apply "data" though |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 397
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Think they'll notice |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 407
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you ppl can't read for shit. |
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they can't. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 414
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you ppl can't read for shit. |
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Mar 26th 2015 | 382
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... and ecstasy has been giving it back to us since 1987. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 392
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i feel homphobia is a contributing factor |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 396
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equally interesting: Escape the “Act Like a Man” Box |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 409
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Definitely interesting |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 416
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7 out of 11!!! |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 431
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I don't feel robbed of touch. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 410
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email the author. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 413
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TLDR: SoWhat wants me to give my homies more shoulder rubs |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 426
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no. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 429
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I hugged one of my boys in public today. I still didn't feel robbed. |
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Mar 27th 2015 | 433
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