even if your mom didn't raise you b/c she was too busy trying to be a star and left you to be raised by her mother and now that you're grown she's trying to make up for lost time by being 'mom' but doesn't seem terribly well-equipped for the role where resentment over your existence is palpable and she mistreats you and is pretty hurtful, if she hits you in the face to the point that your teeth fall out it's probably your fault and not hers b/c moms are infallible.