This doesn't flow with the "just be yourself!" narrative that a lot of women seem to follow tho, so many seemingly put very little effort into actually being attractive to the man that they really want to attract. They are --in effect-- shooting themselves in the foot, dating-wise.
Not every man wants hood-looking women, or trendy (i.e. trying-to-be-young-but-not) women, or angry-looking women, etc. I think the excessive thirsty hollers have them confused about how attractive to the opposite sex they REALLY are.