22. "the problem is, you're the outsider..." In response to In response to 17
and her mom probably let her lay in the bed with her and sleep with her before you were in the picture. now her mom has to say this man, who's not your dad, doesn't want you in our bed anymore...seems to me the mom already has said to her "it's fine when he's not here." that's why she asked her mom 'do you want me to leave' cuz they had this discussion on it.
obviously the mom likes the time her and her daughter share, and enjoys that level of intimacy. these aren't your kids, so you don't *get* it. (no shade).
y'all gotta compromise...
I could see if they were laying in the bed when you are there too, but when you're not home, they should be allowed to. Not with street (outside) clothes on and 15 to 30 min before you arrive, they should have to leave. And your wife should put her toys away when y'all aren't using them.
Or tell your wife to go in her room and chill...but know that it will probably lead to your wife being in her daughter's room a lot more than the daughter would be in your room.