Women working full time has only been prevalent since maybe the 1970's. Homemakers were our moms, grandmothers, and great grams and their parents and grandparents. That doesn't make their contribution any less. Maybe if people stopped putting their all into a job force that exploits them anyway we could raise better human beings.
Men complain about how they don't want a woman so career driven and making more money, so they want to limit that success at the same time asking that she goes to work. Which way would you like it? All your needs met as far as meals, kids, laundry cleaning, etc.. or having your wife at work all the time? It's a personal choice. But you can't call the work that someone does at home being a bum. The workforce is not for everyone. Some are more valuable in the home.