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THIS>>>>>> >At first, my hubby >expected the house to be spotless, my chores to be done, his >mom to make all her appointments, I was to get a workout in, >dinner on the table, and be able to please him sexually when >wanted. And, it was supposed to be done every night. > >He found out that not only this wasn't realistic, that it was >driving his wife crazy and she was turning into a real bitch! >It was during this time I found out I have ADD/ADHD. We also >realized some other things about our marriage and we did some >things to make changes. > >What I would say is know your limitations. Understand that >the stay at home person is not Superman/Superwoman. And, just >because they aren't working a 9-5, they are working too. >Hell, my job doesn't stop at 5. I have a 24 hour a day, 7 day >a week job, 365 days a year job. And, she doesn't allow me to >have sick days. So, know your limitations. Try to spread >your work over the week. And, if you can come up with a plan >before you start a week, do it. > >My to-do list is essential for me to get things done day to >day, if not, I'm a total mess. So, I would share with your >working spouse your to-do list and see if you guys agree. Add >and subtract things. So that you both understand what you >have to do throughout the day, and they don't think you are >just sitting on your ass eating bonbons via Peg Bundy.
_>_>_>_>_ The official symbols of the School Daze/A Different World/HBCU sweater wearin'/Gumby hair havin' set as much as other New Jack Kings and hip-hop artists were....Dr. Claw talking about New Edition
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