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initiationofplato
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93. "not in this case"
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>you may or may not choose to acknowledge it, but it is what
>it is.
>

it really isn't. you cannot provide definite proof for or against. its like the question of god, which view is right and which is wrong?

>which side you fall on is what should be irrelevant. if you
>feel the conversation is disrupted because someone says youre
>wrong, perhaps you need to check your ego and focus on finding
>the truth as opposed to trying to be or sound right. we're
>adults. i'm not here to hold your hand in this. i'm telling
>you my experience and my opinion and if you think that creates
>conflict...well...you'd never survive in art school, lol.

I went to art school and am very successful in my field. I am not trying to be "right", I am simply saying I don't think what you are saying is universally true based on "my" perception and experience.

>
>>I think that is a contradictory statement. At first you said
>>that everything *is* natural, and then you made a a
>condition
>>of processes. It either is or isn't.
>
>NO. i said some things are more natural than others. but
>still, everything is ultimately natural. it's no one or the
>other.
>

I agree that everything is natural. If everything is natural why the need to say "natural aptitude" ? wouldn't "aptitude" be just as true?

>
>my point is that some things are more natural than others.
>that does not take away from the end result. if you put in 500
>hours to accomplish what i can accomplish in 5 hours, you have
>still accomplished the same thing as i have.

So you define natural by speed? but time is infinite and only a measure of the rate of change based on our perspective of it. Art is an abstract practice, we literally take concepts which cannot have a basis in reality and give life to them.

I am not sure how you can use something like art, which is abstract, and make it a law in the universe that some people have more of it than others??

>ok....so is this post just a way for you to validate
>continuing a path you don't have a talent for? if you want to
>pursue a certain path, then you should work hard at it
>regardless of what talent you have or dont have. EVERY
>talented person knows that there are people who are more
>talented than they are; whether or not they continue on that
>path is another set of character traits. it's silly to be in
>denial about where you compare with others; if you are
>discouraged by people who are more talented then you are, then
>it's probably not for you anyway.

Haha, I am not sure how you came to that conclusion. I distinctly said I thought I had no talent for art based on my earliest attempts to draw a human face in proper likeness, and then educated myself, practiced, and discovered that I was very good at it, and now I am very successful with it. That is why I question the idea of "talent". I used to believe in it, until I discovered the only thing anyone needs to be successful in anything they pursue, the love for it and the will to work on it.

>

>this is true, but it does not take away from the value of
>talent in and of itself. your initial query was whether or not
>the concept of talent is a valid one--not the impact it has on
>the ego of the person who has it.
>>

That was a side point, my stance still stands that talent is imagined.


>i feel like you are trying to invalidate my experience. my
>talents were not nurtured by my parents until they saw i had
>it. one of my first memories is of drawing a circle with a red
>crayon on the underside of the kitchen table when i was 3 or
>4. i distinctly remember the weight of the line and how
>perfect one side of the circle was. what do you think could
>have nurtured the ability to draw a near perfect circle at 3
>or 4 years old? i have 2 brothers who grew up in the same
>environment as i did, and they couldn't do what i did nor did
>they have the awareness that i did.
>

I am not trying to do that so I apologize if that's how I came across. More specifically I am not trying to invalidate your work. Whether or not I believe you were born with "talent" does not take away from your efforts. Your work is still just as good. To me personally, and I keep stressing that because a lot of people are a bit to keen to find offense and argue, I do not believe in it. You told me that my belief was "wrong", after I specifically said that I am not arguing or saying you are wrong but have my own beliefs and I shared them. I don't see how you can say I am wrong with such perfect knowledge when you cannot prove it one way or the other. We are just sharing ideas. Neither is wrong or right.

>everything you speak of--passion, love, focus due to freedom
>or comfort--came AFTER my talent was revealed.
>

I have never come across parents who do not say their children are talented. You drew a perfect circle, that's amazing, I remember drawing circles as well. Was it the first circle you ever drew? my personal beliefs is that you came from a home where your interests and passions were nurtured and encouraged. Your point of view is that you were born with it, and we can discuss it till we are blue in the face and it will not make a single difference to the quality of your work.

>regarding your last point, no one is saying that you cannot
>become an excellent artist without talent. i suck at math, but
>im certain i could have become a mathematician had i loved
>math and worked my ass off to become one.

Exactly my point of view. "Had I loved". Exactly! That's the point, love is extremely powerful. Some of us are able to love in ways we think is missing in others, and usually, its because most people have a ton of stuff sitting on their hearts, so they are in their own way. "I cannot love right now because A, B, C...", "I am not ready for this right now because of A, B, C." etc etc.

It does not mean they do not have the capacity to love, it simply means that they have locked themselves in their past, which is insoluble, and impossible to change. If you are able to live in the now, without the past, or the future, and truly focus only on the present moment, your literally lift everything off your heart because it is not happening to you right now, and are able to be your true limitless self.

Children are better at this because they haven't lost their innocence, so to speak, so I do not doubt that you were drawing beautiful circles as a child, and perhaps it is because your heart is open and free, and you did not know of any limitations or boundaries to being able to draw a circle, and so you did it. I think everyone is capable of that.

~Experience is the currency of the soul.

  

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Do you believe in talent? [View all] , initiationofplato, Fri Jan-16-15 02:33 PM
 
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Talent is universal. Opportunity is not.
Jan 16th 2015
1
Can you expound on that a bit please?
Jan 16th 2015
2
yup all the shyt on the internet where people have talent and no deals
Jan 19th 2015
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it makes perfect sense
Jan 16th 2015
3
yes, but you are missing one important thing
Jan 16th 2015
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      im not missing anything. you just dont know how to apply it.
Jan 16th 2015
10
           Interseting, but I think we are in territory that requires data
Jan 16th 2015
21
                this is why i usually avoid your posting. and inboxes.
Jan 16th 2015
26
                     I don't see why you are always "ready at arms", so to speak
Jan 16th 2015
38
                          because i dont see any value in entertaining shit like this
Jan 16th 2015
49
                               Humbly, I will say that I do not believe you have inner peace
Jan 16th 2015
54
                                    right on bro.
Jan 16th 2015
56
                                         ..IS this Bartek?
Jan 18th 2015
114
i definitely believe in talent because i have one.
Jan 16th 2015
4
I can relate to this but not in the way you might expect
Jan 16th 2015
8
      why did you question talent?
Jan 16th 2015
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           Because I grew up believing I had no talent for drawing
Jan 16th 2015
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                dont understand since drawing a face after taking a class
Jan 16th 2015
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                     talent is being able to draw the face WITHOUT a class
Jan 16th 2015
18
                     that's precisely my point. that there is no talent at all.
Jan 16th 2015
22
                          so this is the we are all equal loser talk i gotcha
Jan 16th 2015
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                          I don't see why you would come to that conclusion
Jan 16th 2015
39
                          talent is just natural aptitude. to say there's no such thing is false.
Jan 16th 2015
61
                               I don't mean this as an argument, but I personally just don't believe it...
Jan 16th 2015
64
                                    im sorry but youre wrong
Jan 16th 2015
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                                         Personally, I don't like telling someone they are wrong
Jan 16th 2015
84
                                              but there is in fact, right and wrong
Jan 16th 2015
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                                                        you have a talent for overintellectualizing and missing the point
Jan 16th 2015
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                                                             i'm not arguing haha
Jan 17th 2015
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                                                                  no really. you are missing the point.
Jan 17th 2015
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                                                                       ;)
Jan 17th 2015
113
no matter how hard u try, you may not be able to sing that good...
Jan 16th 2015
5
I think its psychological
Jan 16th 2015
12
      how would u break down the following scenario?
Jan 16th 2015
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      well, that's a hypothetical situation
Jan 16th 2015
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           right but to have 2 siblings from the same household who are better
Jan 16th 2015
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                Isn't it primarily based on interest then?
Jan 16th 2015
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                     i think the first scenario i presented is a realistic one that takes
Jan 16th 2015
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                          your scenario only has 1 possible answer, you do see that right?
Jan 16th 2015
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                               evn if thts the case if your theory is absolute as u say it shld be able
Jan 16th 2015
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      you may be able to sing but you can't SANG
Jan 16th 2015
19
           Ha!
Jan 16th 2015
25
Social Media has bastardized talent and the definition of...
Jan 16th 2015
7
Frederick Douglass once stated that 'you can't have the fruit w/o the
Jan 16th 2015
11
well there is a distinction to be made
Jan 16th 2015
16
RE: That's not necessarily true at all
Jan 16th 2015
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      oh? lol how so?
Jan 16th 2015
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           A lot of your ideas are based on assumptions.
Jan 16th 2015
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           lulz
Jan 16th 2015
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           how is his point even arguable???
Jan 16th 2015
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           It could be a matter of approach or level of committement to the field
Jan 16th 2015
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                you are adding variables
Jan 16th 2015
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                     How convinient to create an experiment
Jan 16th 2015
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                     RE: How convinient to create an experiment
Jan 16th 2015
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                          Him and I can't seem to communicate.
Jan 16th 2015
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                               RE: Him and I can't seem to communicate.
Jan 18th 2015
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                                    That's what I got as well, however
Jan 19th 2015
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                     RE: I did add anything
Jan 16th 2015
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                          yes, you are.
Jan 16th 2015
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                               No you're the one who's actually adding other variables
Jan 16th 2015
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                                    dude cmon.
Jan 16th 2015
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                                         Maybe I'm not making myself clear so let me use a sports analogy
Jan 16th 2015
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                                              thats true, but only half the story.
Jan 16th 2015
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                                                   So ultimately you're agreeing w/the quote I used from Douglass then lol
Jan 16th 2015
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                                                        no amount of work ethic could turn Donald Royal into MJ
Jan 16th 2015
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                                                             No ones arguing that lol - we're talking abt two ppl/or athletes in this
Jan 16th 2015
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                                                                  what is "god given" talent?
Jan 16th 2015
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                                                                       I define it as having a naturally discernible aptness for something
Jan 17th 2015
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                                                                            Some of the greatest minds had no "natural" aptitude.
Jan 19th 2015
127
that's one way of seeing that quote
Jan 16th 2015
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Takes both talent & luck.
Jan 16th 2015
17
Beauty economy? please expound.
Jan 16th 2015
27
^^^^^
Jan 16th 2015
33
That is the most quintessential example of luck
Jan 16th 2015
35
You are discounting Will Power/Passion as an element of talent.
Jan 16th 2015
20
^ talent is a sickness. Sickness in a good way.
Jan 16th 2015
28
I'm confused, where did I discount passion?
Jan 16th 2015
43
even some DOGS have more talent vs others
Jan 16th 2015
31
Genetics, Drive and Opportunity.
Jan 16th 2015
32
Definitely a cocktail of things.
Jan 16th 2015
34
      if you ever see a 5lbs 8 week old puppy pin down a 20lbs pig
Jan 16th 2015
36
I have seen a study on this.
Jan 16th 2015
44
      drug dogs also need to have a specific temperment = not taught
Jan 16th 2015
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           You call it "talent" I call it character traits.
Jan 16th 2015
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yes
Jan 16th 2015
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I think that applies to all of us
Jan 16th 2015
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I dont think anyone is born talented
Jan 16th 2015
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that is my view as well
Jan 16th 2015
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but what if youre REALLY good at something without having to work
Jan 16th 2015
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not so much until my son was born
Jan 16th 2015
50
That's a really cool story
Jan 16th 2015
60
talent is real. i couldn't imagine not being able to identify mine.
Jan 16th 2015
58
yeah some people are just better
Jan 16th 2015
63
no, and michael jordan is my example for why.
Jan 16th 2015
69
you could not have picked a worse example
Jan 16th 2015
72
      yeah, that one took a hop and veered toward the backstop.
Jan 16th 2015
92
I know of natural talent for instance
Jan 16th 2015
75
This needs to be it's own post.
Jan 16th 2015
77
It does for instance many promient athletes have what we know as Aires
Jan 16th 2015
87
      There are 88 constellations in the sky.
Jan 17th 2015
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           Actually there are more depending on the system used.
Jan 17th 2015
106
RE: I know of natural talent for instance
Jan 16th 2015
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      ALmost every prominent writer, speaker or author has
Jan 17th 2015
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           RE: ALmost every prominent writer, speaker or author has
Jan 17th 2015
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                Funny these planets and moons have effects on
Jan 19th 2015
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                     Science has attempted to measure these "effects"
Jan 19th 2015
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                          Lol I love how you speak for science but oh to the contrary
Jan 19th 2015
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                               It's just a myth. Take a look here:
Jan 19th 2015
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                                    Can do this all day
Jan 19th 2015
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                                         What is your point?
Jan 19th 2015
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All I know is that man is the only creature that can ask 'why' or 'how'?...
Jan 16th 2015
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There are distinct differences between man and animals, however
Jan 16th 2015
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      If science has proven apes don't then ants can't be better off
Jan 19th 2015
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Talent and hard wor are distinct, but often
Jan 16th 2015
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This is almost like the
Jan 16th 2015
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Except nothing like it at all.
Jan 16th 2015
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Sadly, if I have one I haven't discovered it yet
Jan 16th 2015
89
Talent is very, very real, dude, come on
Jan 16th 2015
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I honestly just don't believe in it.
Jan 16th 2015
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      dude, i could have been in the gym 23 hours a day
Jan 16th 2015
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           Haha, those are absolutes I can't relate with
Jan 17th 2015
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           RE: Haha, those are absolutes I can't relate with
Feb 04th 2015
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                RE: Haha, those are absolutes I can't relate with
Feb 04th 2015
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                     less drugs, dude, less drugs.
Feb 07th 2015
157
           competition and comparing is the root of the belief in talent
Jan 17th 2015
108
this post actually turned out pretty good
Jan 17th 2015
105
Lebron James is a talented athlete
Jan 17th 2015
110
Basketball is not an accurate measure of human ability.
Jan 19th 2015
126
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Savant_syndrome
Jan 18th 2015
115
If you believe in Evolution, this is a no brainer.
Jan 19th 2015
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Just look at the Jacksons.
Jan 19th 2015
120
The Jacksons were raised in a home which nurtured
Jan 19th 2015
122
      he's saying the diff. btwn Michael and his siblings was talent
Jan 19th 2015
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      Not at all.
Jan 19th 2015
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           Because he was more talented.
Jan 19th 2015
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                It's perfectly okay for me to acknolwedge your belief
Jan 19th 2015
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                     Word. I "believe" in genetics, you don't.
Jan 19th 2015
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                          :)
Jan 19th 2015
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      Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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           RE: Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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                RE: Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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                     RE: Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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                          RE: Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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                          RE: Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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                               RE: Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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                                    RE: Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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                                         RE: Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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                                              RE: Why the desire to make it a binary choice?
Jan 19th 2015
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                          "Nothing you can say will change my mind"
Jan 19th 2015
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                               Don't see a problem with my statement.
Jan 19th 2015
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                                    It's not about changing other people's minds.
Jan 19th 2015
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                                         I have not seen any compelling and objective arguments yet.
Jan 19th 2015
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                                              LOL
Jan 19th 2015
147
                                                   Ahhh classic, passive aggressive insults.
Jan 19th 2015
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Unequivocally
Jan 19th 2015
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Of course talent exists. That's not even debatable.
Feb 04th 2015
156
The Dangers of Believing That Talent Is Innate (swipe)
Feb 10th 2015
158
Thanks for posting, great article!
Feb 10th 2015
159
interesting
Feb 10th 2015
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