79. "For me, it is on a case by case basis" In response to In response to 0
Intent matters...
If the non-Black person is telling a story and it involves the usage of the word nigga, then depending on the level of rapport I have with that person, I may or may not say something about it.
But, as a general rule, I prefer if no non-Black use that word in my presence and in return, I make it a point to also not use the word in their presence.
In the case of the example you have given, I would not have taken offense, unless she continued to use the word.