just like in any bad relationship she gotta be woman enough to walk away.
God only helps those who help themselves
three ways to get something: (1) by trading, (2) by receiving a gift (from love or friendship), or (3) by force ("do what I want or I'll shoot you"). Honest, peaceful people operate in the first two ways. Criminals and the state operate by force, aggression, coercion.
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.