>>sometimes it's about how the other person's issues factor >in. > >god knows i've been learning that the hard way lately. > >ppl come into relationships w/ baggage. and one person's >"negotiation" might wind up another's "belligerence" or >whatever.
Well, I'm a brat. I've always been clear about that. I know alot of Brothahs would not be able to deal w. me. But I don't need "alot", only a few, or one. I know when I'm being belligerent, and that's when I feel that I am not being heard, or am being disregarded. I know when I'm being demanding, which goes back to that brat-thing, again. When I ask, I'm being humble. It's the negotiation-piece, that I have yet to learn, but I'll get it. I just need 2 focus, & have opportunities 2 practice it.
Oooo baby I like it raw. Oooo baby I like it RAAAW!(c)ODB- Shimmy Shimmy Ya