Approached yes, all the time. I went to Lousianna this summer to visit my man and for graduate school contacts overseas and the brothers there were unscrupulous- you'd think they WERE out. Do I approach? Of course not. Like you said, I'm openly Bisexual; I dont have time for for those who dont own their actions, words, or thoughts. In addition, the problem that Black women face isnt theirs alone; anyone dupped, coerced or who chooses to deal with someone on the DL is playing with their life. I let m know that I view being black and queer as strategic tools in my agenda, if they arent about it or dont have a righteous one of there own there isnt even an attraction.
I've been seeing a fellow artist and student of KCAI for the past 8 months- exclusively.