When I really like someone, it usually is because he stimulates me intellectually, and it something about their personality that intrigues me. Madonna said on her special this past w/e, "I thank God everyday that I'm married to a man who makes me think." I can dig it. It doesnot matter to me if others find him physically attractive, or "how he looks on my arm" to others. What's most important to me is how he treats me, but I think that way from hanging around guys as friends, and them advising me, on how men think. Showed me what was most imp. & yes, they were Brothahs that advised me. Even my own biological one.
Oooo baby I like it raw. Oooo baby I like it RAAAW!(c)ODB- Shimmy Shimmy Ya