No, I know a quite a few !single! cats.... share the same views.
Actually at this point in my life, I exclusively associate myself with people who have the same respect for life, love, and something greater than themselves.
You won't catch me on the corner, with the Dipset kids, cat-callin' ass, walking down the street. You won't see me in the club, mean muggin'... looking for my next victim. Not my steelo.
My homie Frank, for example, all flowers and roses... Romantic dude. A lil chunky, but far from obese. He ain't Boris Kodjoe... but you know he keeps himself clean, goes to skool, makes decent money, alladat.
Sistas dog him, call him lame, soft, cuz he treats them like a lady. They want the 'nigga' type... you know.
He gave up on sistas exclusively now. Gon' find him a nice white girl. One who had a daddy that showed her how women should be treated. One who can accept him for who he is.
I say man, what makes you think that you can't find a Black Woman who'll dig you for you. He said "They are too 'material' for me, dumbing themselves down, no self-respect, no ambition to be anything other than a ball-player's groupie, a video-chick and stuff. I think I'm too much for them."