>1. Do we REALLY need a man, if we are financially stable, >have our own homes, already have children(or don't want any), >and I guess know how to go to Rite Aid for batteries when need >be? LOL!
This is a joke right I guess you bought into the amerikkkan dream. Well I will leave you with this mightly saying "Strong families are the backbone of strong nations". Not the woman not the man but the family/collective.
>2. Polygamy: should we stop "fakin' the funk", w/ all these >babydaddies, and sleepin' around w/ other people's husbands, >etc., and just say 'F*** it, we just need to go on and become >a polygamous society w/in a monagamous society-at-large'? & if >we let Brothahs do this, do you think they could handle >it(financially, emotionally & Spiritually w/o letting that Ego >run amuck)?
I don't think most people engage in that behavior but the more black people are socialized to think like their oppressors the more prevelant this behavior will be. Women and men cheat usually for selfish reasons in many societies people cheat but that is a cultural/values issue.
>3. MRS vs MS degree: is it a "worthy sacrifice" to focus on >obtaining education, career, getting your business started(or >whatever the case may be), BEFORE pursuing marriage(or >otherwise committed relationship), or possibly, at the expense >of?
I'm not a woman but in my opinion no that value/moral system is strickly eurocentric.
>4. OTHERS: IF it's really true that there is a shortage of >marriagable Brothahs statistically(due to the down-low<the >estimates are as high as 80% of African-American men engage in >this behavior, btw>, outright homosexuality, eternal >bachelorhood, into white women, in jail, on drugs, >blah-zay,blah-zay, blah-zay, you know the drill...), then >should we look to other types/races/ethnicities of men? If >not, then what is the solution?
I think the downlow bullshit needs to stop. People need to stop listening to the white media and get out in the real world. I would say a major problem in our society is the growing number of lesbian black women running around. I see more lesbian women than gay dudes and these are little girls running around in groups, talking about dykes taking over. Also where are the statistics on DOWNLOW white males I'm sure they are much larger than black folk.
>5. I worked in Kenya in '02, where it is believed that a >female does not become a woman until she gives birth. Agreed, >or disagreed?
That is one nation and their cultural value system should we adopt it I don't think so but I am a not a woman so it is up to you woman to decide.
<--- The lovely Ms Hill when she wasn't thrown off.