I would say that everything is up to the particular sister. Black women are doing it and doing it well. But this does not mean it is time to abandon the counter part in this situation it means it is time for the black male to step up to the plate. It is time for some of these great black women to hold the men more accountable and upstanding black men to hold other blackmen accountable for there actions. We need to stop making excuses for black men and challenge them to get better. Because the black women for all her accomplishments is no more respect in this scoiety than the man. It is time to stop looking for new ways to fall apart and start attacking the whys these conditions exsist. We can't look to the government for solutions because they are more part of the problem than solution.
1. Change the ideal of how sex is veiwed in our community 2. Protest and black ball the objectification of black women in the media which teaches yet another generation to hate the very women who bore them. 3. Stop let these smooth talking fast car owning thugs run the show there are good sound black men out there but the walls some women put up seperate you from what would really make you happy. 4. Make sure you are ready for a commited realtionship with a mature partner before you are intimate this cuts down on confusion on the back end. 5. challenge black organization to do more to make these young men responsible and clean up the black areas. yadda yadda yadda
But if you cut off the black male in the long run it will be like cutting off your nose to spite your face and the same goes for if a black male cuts off all black females
If you are not interested in realtionships thats fine if you find love in another culture good for you but to generalize on these type of serious issues is very dangerous indeed.