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13. "Motherhood"
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Not for me. Always knew it. Thank God I was born at a time when I could take my reproductive destiny into my own hands instead of a time when I was bound to bear children as a by-product of sexual relations, and a time when I could focus on that which I actually find fulfilling rather than being forced into a role that would have been wrong for me.

I acknowledge my personal debt to the feminists who paved the way and I understand that most movements have to begin with a bang or they won't be heard at all. I don't think that anyone is being forced by feminists or by anything other than the economy, their own material desires or other self motivaton, to take jobs or forgo motherhood.

I think there's room for all of it. And I think that was the point of the "Women's Liberation" movement at inception.

This post's caveats: I like children, I just don't want any of my own. I absolutely respect those who bear children, and I figure that the most challenging relationship that anyone can have -- the one with the greatest potential for spiritual growth -- is with one's children. But I do feel pretty strongly that those of us who know that we're not well-suited to be parents are way, way, way better off not doing it than trying to fit in (yes, I said "fit in" because how many women do you know who are willing to say this ish?).

Peace.

~ ~ ~
All meetings end in separation
All acquisition ends in dispersion
All life ends in death
- The Buddha

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Every hundred years, all new people

  

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Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal. [View all] , Starchild, Thu Jul-13-00 11:16 AM
 
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RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Jul 13th 2000
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RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Starchild
Jul 13th 2000
2
damn skippy...
Kash2099
Jul 13th 2000
3
yup, plus this...
Gift
Jul 14th 2000
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RE: yup, plus this...
Gift
Jul 14th 2000
5
Can't let it go!!!!
Starchild
Jul 22nd 2000
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RE: Can't let it go!!!!
Spade
Jul 23rd 2000
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      RE: Can't let it go!!!!
Starchild
Jul 23rd 2000
8
The reason you have...
Jul 24th 2000
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RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
heptu
Jul 24th 2000
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RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Fletch
Jul 24th 2000
11
      RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
heptu
Jul 24th 2000
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           RE: Motherhood
Fletch
Jul 24th 2000
15
           actually....
Jul 24th 2000
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           Just asking...
Jul 25th 2000
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                RE: Just asking...
Jul 25th 2000
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                     Although this isn't scientific at all...
Jul 26th 2000
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                          Granted
Jul 27th 2000
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                               Interesting...
Jul 27th 2000
49
                                    Okay,
Jul 27th 2000
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                                         Sorry, one more thought
Jul 27th 2000
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                                              I feel you...
Jul 27th 2000
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                                                   RE: I feel you...
Jul 27th 2000
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           RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Fletch
Jul 24th 2000
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                RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Jul 24th 2000
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                     Let's be clear
Jul 24th 2000
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                          RE: Let's be clear
Jul 24th 2000
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                               RE: Let's be clear
Jul 24th 2000
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                               Thank You All
Starchild
Jul 24th 2000
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                               RE: Let's be clear
Jul 24th 2000
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                                    RE: Let's be clear
Jul 24th 2000
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                                    RE: Let's be clear
Jul 24th 2000
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RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Jul 24th 2000
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RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Fletch
Jul 25th 2000
26
      What?
Jul 25th 2000
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      RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
heptu
Jul 25th 2000
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           RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Fletch
Jul 25th 2000
31
           Sorry, damn return button
Fletch
Jul 25th 2000
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                RE: Sorry, damn return button
Jul 25th 2000
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                     RE: Sorry, damn return button
Fletch
Jul 25th 2000
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           RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Jul 25th 2000
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RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Shellypooh
Jul 25th 2000
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RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Jul 25th 2000
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RE: Men and Women need to start talking HONESTLY, so we can heal.
Jul 25th 2000
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ISSUES
Starchild
Jul 25th 2000
39
thank you for the justification.
Jul 25th 2000
40
      RE: thank you for the justification.
heptu
Jul 25th 2000
41
Agreed, but...
Jul 25th 2000
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RE:Chiken Heads...
Jul 25th 2000
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Love that book... n/m
Jul 25th 2000
44
      RE: Love that book... n/m
Starchild
Jul 25th 2000
45
as the woman goes...
NiaRa
Jul 26th 2000
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