What I meant by the reference to "fantasies" is beliefs about factual matters that are held near and dear to a person's heart, ranging from Play-Cards/Go-To-Hell to Streets-Of-Heaven-Paved-With-Gold to whatever other picture they hold in their mind. Probably my use of the word "fantasy" was ill advised, I should have been more clear that I was referring to images held in the mind that may or may not be true but that don't work for me. Recall that this was in the context of not stopping good people from doing good things.
Thanks again. I try to think hard about what I post here and I really appreciate feedback.
~ ~ ~ All meetings end in separation All acquisition ends in dispersion All life ends in death - The Buddha