just wanting to have sex, and get freaky doesn't necesarily imply a lack of respect. Our parents thought so, but we're smarter than that.

I feel this post, though. I know many cats who are "down" and yet who sometimes let me down.


I suppose there's being down and being down. We expect people who identify with progressive movements to be righteous, or at least, lacking major flaws.

Unfortunately, these people get snatched up quick. Everybody's got their flaws, and their vice. Many people, if not most, in our culture, have some type of weird approach to sexuality. Our behavior changes. Alot of cats become a little more "hey, now..." or "hey, girl..." and front.

Myself, I get all quiet and reverent like the body is temple, and I'm about to meet god. Perhaps more romantic, but equally as odd.

My point is this:

we know people are flawed. We can write them off for their flaws, or just decide how we'll deal with them. I don't want to be down with some of the women I've been with 'cause they've let me down, but that doesn't make 'em trash.

Now men being socially programmed to be more agressive, when they let a woman down, it's usually in a Ass-HOLE way, so it's tough to let by-gones be, but...

I FEEL YOU. It's a struggle for all people to find someone who fits their style.

Being intellectual is not usually en vogue. It is now, but it's still relatively new concept, maybe 7 years now, so cats are still finding where they exist in it all.

i don't know...