lemme clarify my position. i think that for a Black person to date/marry/make babies with a white person is an example of bad politics. they made a choice that was/is anti-Black (i know i'm gonna catch heat for that assertion). all things considered there still remains something about your partner's whiteness that has gotten you (the Black partner) smitten. and that's so fucked up shit and is really on some self-hate (but no one will admit this).
with that said kids of interracial couples, specifically Black-white couples, will be exposed to their Black parent's bad politics. and too many grow up on some "we are the world" bull. all kids are faced with confusion and try to make sense of the world's craziness. little Black kids born to an interracial couples face a dimension to their confusion that leaves them unable to comprehend and articulate their own situation as a Black person. many either remain confused or actually get gain a perspective once they get to college.