>About the whole "love see no color" thang: I don't buy it. >Racial dynamics informs EVERY SINGLE component of modern >western society. Somehow, when it comes to dating and sex, >people suddenly are able to "transcend race". Bullshit. >Mu'fuckas ain't racially transcendent when they on juries, >or giving bank loans, or hiring new employees, or building >prisons. But race suddenly don't matter when it comes to >gettin ass? Yeah, right.
On the contrary. Neither my wife or I are color blind - we just appreciate the differences and distinctions that we both bring to the table. It's not a matter of overlapping each other's cultures - it's CONVERGENCE. It means compromising and taking a fifty-fifty route when dealing with shit like holidays, raising kids, and insuring both sides get equal airplay.
Nor do we expect colorblindness. Give how ridiculous people are, and how much scrutiny we come under by Marcus3X-types; all I expect is a little warning when I have a bottle thrown at me when we're walking our dog.