i am a black male and i was about thirty before i started to even think about interacial relationships. at the same time i also thought that it might be possible that i might not find that special someone period be she black white etc. i am now in an interracial relationship. it is cool, but i ain't in it cause she's not black. it is because of who she is and how she reacts to me. how she deals with my imperfections and how i deal with hers. and like my man said it is about the the way she makes me feel like anything is possible and how she makes me feel like everything is new even our relationship each and everyday. how she keep making me fall in love every day. i am not in my relationship for political reasons. if anything i spent my first thirty dating for political reasons and it failed. i am not sure why. I feel like i have finally met the person that i was meant to be with and that is what makes it special. if she was black i would be as happy. another thing is if you are really in it for the long haul it can't be about the outside package cause who knows what might happen to that, and when you old she gonna be sexy, but it isn't gonna be about her body and face. you got to be in love with who the person is on the inside. the only time race enters the picture is when we are dealing with issues that are outside of our relationship, i always feel i can be honest with her and that she is honest with me. sometimes it ain't about anything but love and you don't have to prove that to nobody cept the person you in love with.