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7. "agree/disagree"
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>But realize that in a lot of
>situations, a persons desire has
>nothing to do with making
>a decision to receive aid
>or take a job.

yeah it does. if you wanna work you can get a job. if you wanna learn to read you can. desire IS the key. for many it's easier to not do that is TO DO (or at least try). Actually what I'M getting at is the way the "System" will trick some folks into believeing that you CAN"T do better and shouldn't try. For many it IS easier to sit back and "get over" than it is to make an effort to sustain yourself. The tricky thing is that when you relay on ANYBODY to sustain you you're reliant upon that person and their whims. If they decide you are no longer qualified, or change whatever other rule they choose, you have no choice but to bend over and take it.

> These people tend to
>have limited or questionable educational
>background (meaning social promotion).

you gotta elaborate on this one...

>That educational background, along with
>racial steering, limits the types
>of jobs they are qualified
>for, meaning very low, minimum
>wage type jobs.

but there are ways to overcome all of that (or at least ways to try). don't het me wrong, there are hurdles aplenty. but at some point if you say "I'm not even going to TRY and get past that" or fuss about the fact that the hurdle exists, you're essentially pulling yourself out of the "race". the mentality I'm talking about is the one where you get so tired of fighting that you give up and either believe that there IS no way out, or convince yourself that no matter what you do you'll lose anyway. getting specifically to the jobs thing, i know PLENTY of folk who would rather sit and get a check than get a job (or two if that's what it takes). period.

>In these cases, it actually
>cost more for them to
>take a job, than to
>stay home and collect a
>check. The decision is
>now FINANCIAL and has
>nothing to do with "desire".

I believe in a "do what it takes" ethic. If you're just sitting home collecting a check and not doing anything else then (sorry if this sounds harsh) but you are a leech. Go to school, help in your community, SOMETHING.

>Realize that with a new job
>comes new expenses like travel,
>food and clothing.

..and trying to stay on whatever assistance can actually cost you a lot more (in my opinion). there is a difference between assistance as a compliment to what you already make and as a replacement. believe me. i've lived it. i know it's hard for many to live without this help. but what's the alternative, give up? i see folks everyday selling oranges and flowers on the street. I watch groups of guys get up at dawn to stnd at home depot to offer their services to folk rather than wait for someone to GIVE them something. you may think that's silly, but to me there is a certain dignity to earning what sustains you.

>Children also pay a part in
>the decision, but for our
>conversations purposes, we will not
>broach that subject.

that is another discussion. but I'd have to take the hardline there too. why have a kid that you can't support yourself (again gettting HELP is different than getting a full ride based upon your ability to breed)?

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Culture of Poverty? [View all] , k_orr, Fri Aug-11-00 03:34 AM
 
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nope....
Aug 11th 2000
1
Me either.
Aug 11th 2000
17
      Don't be surprised
Aug 14th 2000
35
           huh?
Aug 14th 2000
38
                Elaboration
Aug 14th 2000
52
                     RE: Elaboration
Aug 14th 2000
54
Don't know if it's the same thing...
Aug 11th 2000
2
RE: Don't know if it's the same thing...
WISDOMQUEST88
Aug 11th 2000
3
glad someone is paying attention
Aug 11th 2000
4
RE: You're Right
WISDOMQUEST88
Aug 11th 2000
5
RE: Don't know if it's the same thing...
Aug 11th 2000
12
Theres a couple of way at
Aug 11th 2000
6
RE: agree/disagree
Aug 11th 2000
14
here we go...
Aug 11th 2000
19
What you are doing
Aug 11th 2000
16
here we go again...
Aug 11th 2000
20
RE: What you are doing
Aug 13th 2000
29
First, I'll talk about education.
Aug 14th 2000
34
thank you for clarifying
Aug 14th 2000
37
I'm not getting any work done today
Aug 14th 2000
43
      your assumption seems to be
Aug 14th 2000
50
           $0.02
Aug 14th 2000
57
                RE: $0.02
Aug 14th 2000
RE: Theres a couple of way at
Aug 11th 2000
8
RE: Theres a couple of way at
Aug 11th 2000
15
      RE: Theres a couple of way at
Aug 12th 2000
26
           Schools are in no way responsible
Aug 14th 2000
40
                RE: Schools are in no way responsible
Aug 14th 2000
41
RE: There's a couple of ways
WISDOMQUEST88
Aug 11th 2000
9
The real problem with poor people is...
Aug 11th 2000
10
      RE: The real problem with poor people is...
WISDOMQUEST88
Aug 11th 2000
18
      RE: The real problem with poor people is...
Aug 14th 2000
39
           Work With Me Here
WISDOMQUEST88
Aug 14th 2000
65
                RE: Work With Me Here
Aug 15th 2000
66
                     RE: Work With Me Here
WISDOMQUEST88
Aug 15th 2000
67
      RE: The real problem with poor people is...
Aug 12th 2000
27
           Going Back To the Basics
WISDOMQUEST88
Aug 12th 2000
28
           RE: The real problem with poor people is...
Aug 14th 2000
44
                RE: The real problem with poor people is...
Aug 14th 2000
47
Do you believe that people are
Aug 11th 2000
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      RE: Do you believe that people are
Aug 14th 2000
46
           RE: Do you believe that people are
Aug 14th 2000
64
RE: Don't know if it's the same thing...
Aug 11th 2000
11
well...
Aug 11th 2000
21
      the majority of welfare folks are lucky?
Aug 13th 2000
31
           hello spirit
Aug 14th 2000
32
Perhaps it's not the same...
Aug 11th 2000
23
RE: Culture of Poverty?
Aug 11th 2000
22
whoa now there player....
Aug 11th 2000
24
      RE: whoa now there player....
Aug 12th 2000
25
RE: Culture of Poverty?
Aug 13th 2000
30
RE: Culture of Poverty?
Aug 14th 2000
33
      i agree...sorta
Aug 14th 2000
36
RE: Culture of Poverty?
Aug 14th 2000
42
RE: Culture of Poverty?
Aug 14th 2000
45
RE: Culture of Poverty?
Aug 14th 2000
48
RE: Culture of Poverty?
Aug 14th 2000
55
Were they gonna
Aug 14th 2000
49
not as hard as...
Aug 14th 2000
51
RE: Were they gonna
Aug 14th 2000
56
i just wanna say...
Aug 14th 2000
53
      RE: i just wanna say...
Aug 14th 2000
58
           hit the "help" button above (n/m)
Aug 14th 2000
61
I agree w. Shaun_G
Aug 14th 2000
59
this is a response to #49 (n/m)
Aug 14th 2000
60
RE: I agree w. Shaun_G
Aug 14th 2000
62
      i dunno
Aug 14th 2000
63

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