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d-Best

Mon Sep-11-00 09:18 AM

  
29. "an opinion... as misinformed as it may be"
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Thinking all the way back, I've known alot of kids of "asian" ancestry who were adopted by families of "white" ethnicity. Kids who were somewhat distinct from friends of Vietnamese ancestry and family.

Dean (ancestry & familY) was socialized by his friends, and his town-town roots to represent urban culture. Yet he could rock VietNamese traditions, holidays, etc. spoke the language, had a pet chicken (for real) etc.

Now some of these other cats were NOT FROM DOWNTOWN! Pseudo-suburban cats who acted like white valley girls, or typical bonehead--Yo I'm a guy suburban white men.

I wonder. But again, as cats mention, Black America is not approached the same way by racists and "notaracists" as just any adoption situation.

I HAVE known a few of our African ancestry brethren with "white" ethnicity families, AND two INDIAN (as in INDIA) ancestry black, black men with "white" ethnicity families.

--public school, what can I say!?--

these cats were very "white" not Carlton on fresh prince white, but the clothes, the speech patterns, the white-people work ethic (if you don't work, you are bad).

Nice cats, sure. But quite distinct from "black" culture to the point where they would not fit in at all.

They got the shaft, because ignorant cats from both black and white ethnicities ostracized them at times.

hmm. I wish I knew more, but I don't know most of these cats beyond the surface.


I think the kids will be as fine as their environment can provide for them. BUT MOST FAMILIES AREN'T CULTURALLY INCLUSIVE OR PHILOSOPHICALLY "down" ANYWAY...

Take a child of African anceestry and put it in a "black" family that just so happens to be wealthy, self-serving and disinterest in the struggles or uplifting or normal people.

That kid is at a disadvantage.

Take a child of northern-european ancestry and put it in a ethnically "black" family that rocks black power, Amiri Baraka plays, and goes to the Nuyorican Poets cafe every wednesday for open mic night--and that kid will know what's up.

Those are extremes though.

On average, it's gotta be tough.

  

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Interracial Adoptions [View all] , Gloworm, Thu Aug-31-00 05:47 PM
 
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slave2tharhythm
Aug 31st 2000
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RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 05th 2000
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      RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 05th 2000
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           RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 05th 2000
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RE: Interracial Adoptions
Xala
Sep 01st 2000
2
RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 01st 2000
3
The DCFS
Sep 01st 2000
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words from an adoptee
Sep 05th 2000
8
Thanks for the insight!!!!
Sep 06th 2000
9
      RE: Thanks for the insight!!!!
Sep 06th 2000
10
           Not my intention.....
Sep 06th 2000
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                well
clo
Sep 06th 2000
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                     I said that a little earlier
Sep 06th 2000
13
let's flip it
Sep 07th 2000
14
Me too, Nap!
Sep 07th 2000
15
if i may ask...
Sep 07th 2000
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      I don't mind...
Sep 07th 2000
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      RE: if i may ask...
Sep 11th 2000
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Anybody remember
Sep 09th 2000
19
The way I look at it...
Sep 09th 2000
18
argh... I hate this topic
Sep 10th 2000
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Need for Love is Undisputed but
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RE: argh... I hate this topic
Sep 11th 2000
27
RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 10th 2000
21
care to elaborate? n/m
Sep 10th 2000
23
A different spin...
Lunarwon
Sep 10th 2000
22
There are too many things outside
Sep 11th 2000
25
      RE: There are too many things outside
Lunarwon
Sep 11th 2000
30
In Detroit two years ago,
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