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there was a black woman who had been the foster parent then adopted mother of a biracial girl. The girl's sister, who was white, had also been in the home as a foster child but later moved out for reasons which escape me now. To keep with what Michigan claims it encourages, plus because a relationship had grown with the foster mother and the white sister, she tried to adopt her. It took her years because social workers tried to find every excuse in the book (and out) to keep the girl away from that house, but she finally was adopted and lives with her new mother and sister.

In cases such as this, I don't have a problem with interracial adoption. If the numbers were even as far as children of other races being adopted by non-white parents, I wouldn't have a gripe. But there are too many children of color being adopted by people who have absolutely no concept of what it is like to be, live around, congregate with people of color. Remember Losing Isiah, "When was the last time you had a black person over for dinner?", "Does he have any dolls of color besides Bert and Ernie? (something like that)".

I think that it is selfish to adopt a child, say that race doesn't matter, when it does for the child's well-being. Some people have grown up fine in this type of enviroment, but from what I've read and seen in interviews, it was rough.

Plus, I've know white people who adopt children of different races and still carry racist attitudes toward poc's(people of color). How dare someone show off pictures of their Asian child, but snub a Latino for asking them a simple work-related question.

I'm venting. Okay, my point's made.

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Interracial Adoptions [View all] , Gloworm, Thu Aug-31-00 05:47 PM
 
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RE: Interracial Adoptions
slave2tharhythm
Aug 31st 2000
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RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 05th 2000
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      RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 05th 2000
6
           RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 05th 2000
7
RE: Interracial Adoptions
Xala
Sep 01st 2000
2
RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 01st 2000
3
The DCFS
Sep 01st 2000
4
words from an adoptee
Sep 05th 2000
8
Thanks for the insight!!!!
Sep 06th 2000
9
      RE: Thanks for the insight!!!!
Sep 06th 2000
10
           Not my intention.....
Sep 06th 2000
11
                well
clo
Sep 06th 2000
12
                     I said that a little earlier
Sep 06th 2000
13
let's flip it
Sep 07th 2000
14
Me too, Nap!
Sep 07th 2000
15
if i may ask...
Sep 07th 2000
16
      I don't mind...
Sep 07th 2000
17
      RE: if i may ask...
Sep 11th 2000
26
Anybody remember
Sep 09th 2000
19
The way I look at it...
Sep 09th 2000
18
argh... I hate this topic
Sep 10th 2000
20
Need for Love is Undisputed but
Sep 11th 2000
24
RE: argh... I hate this topic
Sep 11th 2000
27
RE: Interracial Adoptions
Sep 10th 2000
21
care to elaborate? n/m
Sep 10th 2000
23
A different spin...
Lunarwon
Sep 10th 2000
22
There are too many things outside
Sep 11th 2000
25
      RE: There are too many things outside
Lunarwon
Sep 11th 2000
30
an opinion... as misinformed as it may be
d-Best
Sep 11th 2000
29

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