I mean you can be influenced in whether or not you tell the rest of the family! No, I completely agree -- you can choose to engage in behaviors but you can't choose who claims your heart.

Peace.

I play it off, but I'm dreaming of you. -- Macy Gray

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All meetings end in separation
All acquisition ends in dispersion
All life ends in death
- The Buddha

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Every hundred years, all new people