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KoalaLove

Tue Oct-03-00 04:55 AM

  
51. "A few disagreements..."
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>...then there IS colonialism...because I have
>seen not only people of
>African decent, but arabs and
>other medium-toned people hold a
>lot of respect for lighter
>complected people, and these are
>all colonized regions that follow
>that pattern.

Are the Arab countries colonized?

>>What is it that makes a
>>lateral cosmetic fashion trend an
>>appealing and encouraged practice on
>>their behalf and signification of
>>a deep rooted global self
>>esteem problem on ours?
>
>I think it's because of the
>point I brought before...people with
>dark skin (that try to
>lighten their skin) seem to
>base their concept of beauty
>on power and racial worth.
>Darkening the skin seems to
>be a more recnt problem
>and seems to have more
>of a social aspect to
>it.

My contention is it seems awfully presumptuous to make this statement about people's intentions- I have never seen any person who is willing to do this to themselves discuss their motives yet everybody under the sun speaks for them.

>And not that anything is wrong
>with slight tanning from being
>outside - but the argument
>that tanning is NEEDED in
>small amounts is not based
>on any kind of medical
>information...and may even harm very
>fair people.

Actually I had a pale girlfriend once- her doctor did prescribe tanning every two weeks to cure her psoriasis.

>The fact that someone is disgusted
>by seeing another's veins show's
>that people can not accept
>skin for what it is
>and must put some kind
>scale for an acceptable skin
>color that we all should
>follow.

uh-oh you cant front on that.

>Either way, not accepting and protecting
>our skin in it's natural
>state is unhealthy and anyone
>that would go to an
>extreme and that would risk
>their health has been affected
>by SOMETHING to want to
>do such.


I has chosen the objective route and makes a pretty measured argument- My contention is that the difference or danger in either case is the fashion in which you achieve the desired look. If you're willing to step out of the bounds of your normal schedule to adjust your skin condition then your embarking on a mission that diminishes the integrity of your body as "god intended". Now im not advocating for religion but if any assessment of Black people must incorporate the tendencies and results of racial oppression then in my opinion the whole issue should be elevated equally.

Some of us totally undermine the integrity of choice that Black people have in doing this- claiming that it autmatically signifies a colonialized mind- well then the same arguments are in effect for tanning, or maybe even hair coloring, hair extensions, tattooing, and cosmetic surgery.

My problem is whenever "whites" engage in such things (on a large scale I might add) we rarely propose that they have no autonomy to make such decisions.

I think that premise is insulting.

K

  

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Lighten UP! [View all] , KoalaLove, Fri Sep-29-00 08:51 AM
 
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But, I'm saying though, Koala,
Wise_7
Sep 29th 2000
1
I understand what you're saying
KoalaLove
Sep 29th 2000
2
RE: I understand what you're saying
d-Best
Sep 29th 2000
3
      Blaring double standard
KoalaLove
Sep 29th 2000
4
      RE: Blaring double standard
thebestof1975
Oct 02nd 2000
11
           So if...
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
12
                RE: So if...
thebestof1975
Oct 02nd 2000
15
                     Natural tanning beds
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
16
                          RE: Natural tanning beds
thebestof1975
Oct 02nd 2000
24
                               well then...
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
27
                                    RE: well then...
thebestof1975
Oct 02nd 2000
30
                                         where the pale faces at?
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
32
                                              RE: where the pale faces at?
thebestof1975
Oct 02nd 2000
34
                                                   The difference
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
36
      RE: Veins
Sep 29th 2000
6
      d-best - true statement
Sep 29th 2000
9
           So what if I wanted to...
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
13
tanned skin (read dark) = more attractive
Sep 29th 2000
7
i haven't read all this..(i'll be back)
Sep 29th 2000
5
RE: i haven't read all this..(i'll be back)
Shellypooh
Sep 29th 2000
8
bwaaaaahahahahha
Sep 29th 2000
10
      Oompaloompahs
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
14
There IS a difference
Oct 02nd 2000
17
RE: There IS a difference
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
18
RE: There IS a difference
Oct 02nd 2000
19
      RE: There IS a difference
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
22
           RE: There IS a difference
Oct 02nd 2000
23
                RE: There IS a difference
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
25
                     RE: There IS a difference
Oct 02nd 2000
28
                          RE: There IS a difference
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
31
                               RE: There IS a difference
Oct 02nd 2000
33
                                    RE: There IS a difference
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
35
                                         RE: There IS a difference
Oct 02nd 2000
39
                                              RE: There IS a difference
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
40
                                                   RE: There IS a difference
Oct 02nd 2000
41
                                                        RE: There IS a difference
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
42
                                                             RE: There IS a difference
Oct 02nd 2000
43
                                                                  What if...
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
45
                                                                       RE: What if...
Oct 02nd 2000
46
                                                                            Thats what Im saying...
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
47
                                                                                 RE: Thats what Im saying...
Oct 02nd 2000
49
RE: There IS a difference
thebestof1975
Oct 02nd 2000
26
Koala?
Oct 02nd 2000
20
You Know ME?
KoalaLove
Oct 02nd 2000
21
On a semi-related note
Oct 02nd 2000
29
exactly what i am talking about
Oct 02nd 2000
37
      a good link about bleaching in the us.
Oct 02nd 2000
44
*applause*
Oct 02nd 2000
38
RE: Lighten UP!
jesmar
Oct 02nd 2000
48
OK...
Oct 03rd 2000
50
      RE: A few disagreements...
Oct 03rd 2000
53
dunno, man..
AfricanHerbsman
Oct 03rd 2000
52
How 'bout: White ppl wanna B Black
Oct 03rd 2000
54

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