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But now the question goes beyond its implications into Black fashion and complexion concern.
The question is- are we willing to prescribe such hefty judgements when "whites" do the same ish at a much larger rate?
Would you condemn any person of tanning- and not just getting brown in the sun but actually tanning- as necessarily insecure? Do you look at pale people and say think to yourself they need to get sun? is there something wrong with that?
As for the general human condition- seeing as insecurity is a natural state for human emotion I certainly hope you're not suggesting a standard manner in which people should cope with their insecurity. My point is- if it's ok for "whites" to sit on the beach and soak up browness at risk of skin cancer then why is not ok for Black people to do the same in the revers?
Im playing devil's advocate really now- some people still think Im trying to say light right is right and thats not the case- my question is , is there something wrong with it?