>And as for influencing sisters to >conduct themselves in a more >upstanding manner by being an >example, this cannot happen. Simply >because ignorance is innate, and >they will never change. Until >then, I steer clear from >certain types of black women. >
ain't gonna help shit.
I say take ya's advice and try paying a sista a compliment. I'm telling you--and I'm speaking from experience--she may cuss you out right then, but I guarantee she'll think about what you said later on and it will spark thought. She may not change overnight, but it's a start.
But all that negativity is only perpetuating the bullshit. For real.