That is so true! I met many women with "natural" hair styles and consider themselves "natural" and they smoke, drink, do drugs, litter, don't care about the environment, use other chemicals, judge others and don't know who they really are. It is a shame that most people model their dreams, fantasies, desires and future after television. It is so frustrating...But I have another question for you. Do you have any ideas of how we can take steps to change the paradigm or the social construct? Where do we start?